What I am doing  

rm_emmeanne 55F
21 posts
12/4/2005 8:05 pm

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What I am doing


a.k.a. What am I doing???

I have been on this site for well over a year. In that time I have gone out with a lot of men I've met on here.

Tonight was to have been another date, but alas the a%% did not show up. I was rather surprised that I was only slightly annoyed.

As I was sitting at Panera (alone) waiting for the no-show lawyer (scum), I was smiling, even though I had driven 100 miles. I decided to chronicle my dates for the amusement and education of others. Ya' know when you come across an a%%, like tonight, what can you do? You can't leave a testimonial on their profile. I decided that journaling in a blog would be a healthy form of release.

So, Mr. scum thank you for the enlightening 200 mile drive.

Now - on a brighter note... I have had the priviledge of meeting many very nice guys who were real gentlemen. I think I will, in time, make other posts just to show that there are some decent people on here too.

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
12/4/2005 9:37 pm

What can you do? You can change your mind about how far you are willing to drive to meet someone. You can not do anything about
anything other than how you choose to see anything.

This man gave you an opportunity to learn a wonderful lesson
that could save your some grief later down the road. Learn the
lesson before you decide to fly cross country to meet someone.

Get very clear with what it is that you want and you
will attract clear people to you.
Seriously, it works that way.

Having a submissive side does not mean that you do not
get to lay your boundaries down or be clear with your intentions.

Don't be so quick to meet face to face. You can tell alot about
a person by talking to them on the phone. And let them do the
drivin'.

Bless him.
He has been a teacher for you.
Learn the lesson and let go.

There are many wonderful people on this site.
Tune your energy that direction.
Good luck and welcome to Blogland.

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


rm_Smile_My_Way 60M
1519 posts
12/5/2005 5:03 pm

You may want in the furture do a few things different so that doesn't happen. Get a cell number so in case of an emergency one could call. Call before you leave on a long trip so you know the other is going. Call if you get lost or going to be late. Get to know the person for a month or more before going on a long trip.
Better luck in the future. I know you have had success with some guys.


rm_Smile_My_Way 60M
1519 posts
12/5/2005 8:26 pm

You did right by calling. The fact he didn't answer sends up a red flag, but I guess that 20-20 hind sight on my part.

I'm sure you did, but I'll ask anyway, did you try to get ahold of him after you got back? To see if he had a good reason for not showing up and not answering his cell. Or does it really matter what his excuse is...lol...I'm just wondering. He's still a jerk, I know...lol...


akabeegt 54M
2 posts
12/8/2005 8:55 am

I believe this calls for a lawyer joke-

A law firm receptionist answered the phone the morning after the firm's senior partner had passed away unexpectedly. "Is Mr. Smith there?", asked the client on the phone. "I'm very sorry," the receptionist answered, "but Mr. Smith passed away last night." "Is Mr. Smith there?", repeated the client. The receptionist was perplexed. "Perhaps you didn't understand me, I'm afraid Mr. Smith passed away last night." "Is Mr. Smith there?", the client again asked. "Ma'am, do you understand what I'm saying?", said the exasperated receptionist, "Mr. Smith is DEAD!" "Oh I understand you perfectly," said the client, "I just can't hear it often enough."


akabeegt 54M
2 posts
12/8/2005 8:58 am

Could be you dodged a bullet:

A man was sent to Hell for his sins. As he was being taken to his place of eternal torment, he passed a room where a lawyer was having an intimate encounter with a beautiful young woman. "What a ripoff," the man muttered. "I have to roast for all eternity, and that lawyer gets to spend it with a beautiful woman." Jabbing the man with his pitchfork, the escorting demon snarled, "Who are you to question that woman's punishment?"


rm_Hansum14U2 58M

12/13/2005 6:40 pm

Em,

Every time somebody meets me they think I'm a surprisingly good guy. We have fun.

But,

There are a lot of guys who are jerks, and it makes it that much more difficult for everyone else.

It is difficult to drive back. I'm sorry it happened to you.


tounguencheek2 61M
1 post
1/3/2006 2:25 pm

EVERYONE KNOWS ATORNEYS REP ESP NOW. ABLIND RABBIT AND A SNAKE GOING ACROSS THE DESERT I A COLLISION PATH. FINALY THEY BUMP INTO EACH OTHER. THE RABBIT WANTS TO CLIMB ON THE SNAKE AND QUESS WHAT IT IS. THE SNAKE AGREES BUT WANTS TO GO FIRST. THE SNAKE SLITHERS AROUND THE RABBIT UNTILL THE RABBIT SAYS ENOUGH, NOW I WANT TO FEEL YOU. THE RABBIT STARTS TO CLIMB ON THE SNAKE, GENTLY FEELING AROUND "OH YOUR'E SO COLD. OHHH YOUR SO SLICK". HE THEN REACHES UNDER THE SNAKE AND EXCLAIMS "NO BALLS, YOU MUST BE AN ATORNEY!"


rm_crescent72 58M
1 post
1/15/2006 5:41 am

Sorry to hear that you were stood up after such an effort. A few years ago I came across a poll that reported that the three most distrusted professions were, in order: lawyer, banker, and used car salesman. Oops.


slider1312 57M
16 posts
1/27/2006 7:10 am

Sorry to here that happen to you. Same happen to me, so thats why I put distances on the profile. But on a lighter note: Usually if I see a woman by herself, I do the approaching game to buy her a drink, to be one of the nice guys and get the brush off. So dame if you do, dame if you don't.


rm_Whaam 63M
3 posts
2/13/2006 11:29 am

What an Ass. He should have at least went to the location and had a light meal with you. Ball-less puke. Well that wouldn't have happened with me. Good luck Darlin!!

Hugs Whaam


rm_HotTongue360 58M
6 posts
3/12/2006 2:23 pm

Hi emmeanne,

I love the look I luv women in blue purple or white bras and pantys, I live in jackson area and we need to hook up.


rm_HotTongue360 58M
6 posts
3/19/2006 2:20 pm

Thanks for the response, I am looking for someone to exchange oral favors at least too. I am not married,send me an email in your next message.


spyderoak2 56F

7/27/2006 6:33 pm

Thats why I insist that people meet me in my own hometown, near home. If you want me bad enough you will come to me lmao. Well, theres other reasons too


ilikecurvyones 59M

12/20/2006 12:04 pm

lol, i love it. the jokes that is. sorry the dickless wonder didnt show. butt i do beleive your better off he didnt. ever known of a lawyer that was a truthful person? all i can say is i think its probably his loss. a lawyer having a loss, imagine that. lol. ironic. dont you think? im sure you deserve better than a lawyer.


ordnryavgguy 57M

2/12/2007 7:13 pm

Do you know why lawyers are required to wear neck ties in court? To keep the foreskin down!


rm_muledicker 49M
2 posts
7/1/2007 6:08 pm

I wish that you give me the chance.You will cum to find out that all men are not bad


FluidicShark 57M

10/10/2007 7:52 pm

I am sorry that you had to endure that situation. Not all men are jerks like that. I have NEVER stood ANYONE up on a date, and I have ALWAYS been a gentleman. And if i was willing to go so far as to set up a meeting, then i was already interested in going further.
I DO have to say, on the other hand, that i HAVE been stood up on more than one occasion. Left waiting somewhere, for long periods of time, after driving very long distances myself. I realize there are a LOT of jerks out there, but they aren't limited to men. Thank god they are a small portion of the people in here! An I'm very glad to hear you found someone perfect for you... it gives us all hope!


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