I give up!  

rm_elena0528 38F
43 posts
5/9/2006 7:16 pm

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7/21/2006 11:01 pm

I give up!

Ok, so I'm gonna give up on men.
I'm gonna vent here, so if you're a man and don't want to read about my male-bashing, feel free to leave...
Why is it guys start something they don't want or can't finish??
Let me explain my most recent experiences.... hmmm..there was the guy who I chatted with for about a month. Then nothing. Nada. Zip. No response for a week. Not even a, "sorry I was away from the computer when you IM'd me." Then it was, "oh let's meet! this other chick I've been talking to is scaring me, so hey, you're my next choice!"
Hmmmm...no thanks!
The next two ended up to be married....the first at least had the decency to tell me from the beginning not to expect anything except fun... and hey, I was ok with that. The second was in the process of a divorce (supposedly), but never called back after we met.
Am I that repulsive??
The most recent is moving out of state. Never actually "met" him, which is probably good, but hey, I felt we kinda hit it off. Apparently not since he's dating someone else now.
Seriously...am I that horrible? And if one more person gives me that "There's more fish in the sea" crap, I swear I'm gonna hurt 'em!!
So yeah, I'm gonna give up on men. They're just trouble.
Anyone want to try to convince me otherwise??

eroticbettyboop 51F

5/12/2006 8:46 pm

awwwww hon! there r just alot of jerks. don't think its u because its not. some guys just can be inconsiderate and just plain insensitive. but the good news is that there are good guys out there too! guys that are considerate,sensitive,truthful and sweet. just when u least expect to find him he'll be there. in the meantime girl you need to go out w/me toy shopping..lol..the hell s/men! lol! (j/k)and lets go get some margaritas! my treat! hugz!!!!

rm_Rinder9 55M
3 posts
5/13/2006 10:20 pm

Bash away! Sorry to hear you had all these bad experiences. It seems that its common for a lot of people here (or at least those who post stuff). There are decent people out there, and there are a lot of bungholes who make it hard on the decent people. It's your choice to give up or not...most important, keep your dignity. This is about you, and what's best for you. Good luck!

rm_elena0528 38F
12 posts
6/28/2006 8:41 pm

Thanks for your perspective.
It got me thinking a bit more. What you've said makes sense. I've always started out expecting friendship - nothing more unless we both want more - but just these past few experiences haven't been all that great and it just gets me down wondering if there's something wrong with me - just my insecurities, I guess, and I felt better after venting about it.

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