frustration brought on by a beautiful dilemma  

rm_dji08 31M
6 posts
4/23/2005 8:31 pm

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frustration brought on by a beautiful dilemma

i am sexually frustrated.

not something you'd expect to hear from a guy going to a college with hot girls vying for your attention as if their lives depended on it. and therein lies the problem: they want sex and ME. i'll settle for sex, but the last thing i need right now is a relationship. i don't need to talk to a girl about how drunk she got on saturday when i have to study for a do or die test the next day. i don't need a girl to talk to me about the latest BS on the OC or what she heard about so and so when i want to go to SLEEP. i'll have time for it later on, maybe after i adjust to multi-tasking (since apparently that was my problem in my last relationship), but jesus, too much for me to handle at this point. just sex and then i'll see you tomorrow for another round, not too much talking in between please. hah, wish i could say that.

maybe i'm too nice? if that's the case, i should really stop talking to girls and hoping for just sex cuz it's just not in me to be an asshole. that's why i don't have sex with them, i could easily do that and avoid them for the next 4 years of my life. but again, not in me. really though, i just can't believe how hard it is to find a girl who wants what i do when i see so frickin many of them here. amazing.

well, hopefully fate will be more generous to me in the future.

playfulwithyou33 57F
961 posts
4/24/2005 5:45 am

You're young and the things you view as a dilemma now will be mere memories in your old age. But treating your sexual partners with respect will never be a bad thing--keep in mind many people connect intimacy with the sexual act; as compared to sexercise. If that's all you're out for make sure they are aware of that and/or maybe make really close friends with your hand.

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