An Uncomfortable Chain of Events  

rm_disnightout 57M/57F
16 posts
6/19/2006 12:53 pm

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5/19/2007 6:05 am

An Uncomfortable Chain of Events

1) It all seemed to start w/ a message I got on FriendFinder. It was from a guy about my age. The photo contained a rather nice closeup of his manhood. He was holding himself at the base with a really large appendage extending well past his fingers. I found myself staring at the pic. It was large, thick but there was something about the way it curved upward, long and smooth, almost slippery looking. I fantasized about it for the whole day.

2) I told my husband that we should delete our account. I changed the password and the e-mail address that we had registered with.

3) I sent an email reply to Mr. Penis saying I felt we should spend some time alone together.

So far so good, but

4) I am at my daughters preseason mandatory parent meeting for soccer. The father of my daughters friend is there. He is pretty cool. We have always gotten along. We are chatting before and after the meeting when he almost abruptly says, quietly, that "he wasn't sure whether he should bring it up but that he had seen my add on AdultFriendFinder"!!!! I paraphrased but you get the point. I must have turned beet red and he tried to calm me down. He was very reassuring that he would't tell anyone but I am a bit freaking.

5) I deleted my main photo from my profile.

I need to think things over.

countrypassion2 55F
26 posts
6/19/2006 2:12 pm

Every gal should read this. That is a bad situation to be in when you have kids or when your public or professional livelihood is compramised by this type of thing...............

very_low_key 63M

6/19/2006 4:25 pm

Can you tell me what his profile name is? His pic sounds a lot like mine; maybe he copied it? At any rate; I am a safe distance away, and your profile seems to compliment mine pretty nicely. CAn we chat?

Mike in Bay

GhostwolfSpyGirl 48M/49F

6/20/2006 1:06 pm

this type of thing is our biggest fear as well

so we only give out generic deniable info in public blogs ect

if someone seen us here, why are they here as well?

we go for balance of information, we verify, go slow, and make sure they have as much to losoe as we do if discovered. We do this so someone cant gain info on us and have an advantage.

ckr8one 78M

6/26/2006 2:55 pm

Did your reply ever get to the profile with the intriguing picture? Maybe that person who sent the original photo never got your reply and though you were blowing him off? Not that a pretty girl like you would do that. You are right those of us with professional lives have to be discreet but more importantly careful! Good luck in dealing with your daughters friend.

rm_BedBuddyOh4U 63M

11/1/2006 1:33 pm

This is something that I have often thought about, and have come to believe that it's a two-way street. The person that sees you on there is just as vulnerable, amongnst thier friends and co-workers. It's a chance we all take, and I would think that we all have mutual respect for one another and not say anything outside of AdultFriendFinder. The challenge is that the pics can be save, so if the profile is deleted, the "proof" still exists. I try not to post any pics with any identifyable traits. Once a conversation develops, I go from there, but still the risk exists.

rm_elkmedicine 62M
2 posts
2/27/2007 10:11 pm

My greatest fear is that somebody who knows me will go on this site, either out of curiosity, or just looking to find who's here, and find ME. Could be trouble. So, discretion is a must! Otherwise, I'm honest here.

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