Pissed off and Confused  

rm_darkathena 34F
22 posts
4/15/2005 8:38 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Pissed off and Confused

Why wont a guy talk to a woman and tell her straight up that you are bad, gross, a turn off, etc? Just been w a guy recently thought he was cool, but he didnt talk much. I didnt quite understand it, and still dont cause he cut me off. I at least want to know what was wrong so I could fix it. The way he treated me made me feel like trash. He wasnt even that good, and his profile on here is a total lie. I am turning now to women to see if they can give me the pleasure I want and crave.


4/15/2005 9:06 pm

hey not everyne is an ass hole.That's not a reason to switch but if that is your thing go for it. I think you will find women will do the same thing if the right one comes along. I wish you well


4/15/2005 9:08 pm

Just cause one person gave you his back dont mean you should give your back to the world....remember this is a sex site....we are all looking for a good fuck....
Put You Back Into It

1 post
4/15/2005 9:20 pm

Sorry to hear you had a bad experience. Don't judge all men by that one. I'm PO'd as well about how rude some people are.

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4/15/2005 9:29 pm

Take the time to search better next time, and have clear in mind what you want, that way you'll find what you want.elinunATyah

mygmyg 60M

4/15/2005 11:22 pm

Darkathena, sorry you had the bad experience. You commented that you wanted to know what was wrong, so you could fix it. the wrong was the guy! He would not talk because HE was living a lie in his relationship with you.
You could not fix it, and should not change yourself. You will grow as we all do from our experiences, the bad, and the good. Alarm bells will start to go off when a person won't reveal his/her self to you honestly.
Go with what your heart tells you, eye contact, will help. While it is difficult to reveal our inner most truths, the person revealing these truths will lock eyes for their own security "anchor". Trust is shared and built together.
If a man wants to keep you at arms length, he is hiding from himself, let him enjoy the relationship from this distance. Judge all men by your experiences, until we break from the mold and show you something other than thegame playing, brooding, strong, silent type. You will recognize the difference!
Athena, be intuitive, intelligent and decisive, decide what YOU want and whom you will share yourself with. Whether it is a physical fling, or more that you desire. You are obviously your own harshest critic, none of us are 100% right all the time, learn from the missteps, grow from the experience, and protect yourself.

mygmyg 60M

4/16/2005 12:06 pm

Athena, I hear you. As you will come to realize, we are all learning about ourselves, continually. Life's pace masks the growth and changes in our wants, desires and needs. Recognizing the changes or the desire for change is always a sign of growth.
Knowing what you don't want, and deciding what you will not settle for is that first step. Athena as you are learning and searching, it may appear you're alone and seeking in vain. 95% of us are paddling around in the same endless sea.
There are no quick fixes, unfortunately, patience is not something anyone wants to hear when we are yearning for companionship. Keep your focus on what you want, remain independent, and let noone take advantage of you. You are filled with vast inner strength, tap into it, use it, you do have the power over men. Men blindly "want". Women have needs that they "choose" to fill. Act from this perspective and control who enters into your life and the access you will grant to them.
When you make contacts on the site pick who you are interested in, tactfully express what you are looking for, and make him/her prove to you that they are genuine in their intent. Seize the power and make it work for you.

Yes, I think that the TAAS tests have become a hindrance in the classroom. Way too much time preparing to pass a test is stifling the teachers ability and choking the learning opportunity in the schools. And with the "No child left behind" agenda, things will continue to slide backwards.
Teachers have been raising the issue to closed ears, We don't pay them properly, and will not allow them to maximize their teaching expertise.
Could go on about this for hours.

Athena, thanks for blogging with me. Enjoy your search, tap into your strengths and choose who and what you want in your relationships. Never give up the power, share it maybe, but only when you want to.

CanLastHours 35M
8 posts
4/16/2005 5:36 pm

There are still nice guys. Personally I was in the same situation as yourself. I was in a relationship for about a year and then all of the sudden she told me she wasn't happy. It was past the point where we could try to work it out, she had already moved on. I too am looking for someone that is "real" and nice. I have come to the realization though that I might be on the wrong site for that.

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