Friend Zone  

rm_cmpatri 39M
18 posts
3/19/2006 7:27 pm

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Friend Zone

How do people get from friend/aquaintance to being in a relationship? It can't be that hard, people who aren't me do it all the time. Apparently I missed a memo somewhere, I can never seem to get from "You're such a nice guy" to "I want to see you naked" without taking a detour through pervertville. Usually when I try to flirt, I just scare women. I've tried to be the nice confidant trustworthy type, but invariably that puts me in the dreaded "friend" zone.
Possibly it's my appearance. I've noticed that when I get caught checking out a woman I get the "you're creepy stay away from me" look. I've accepted long ago that I'm not going to win any beauty pagents. Knowing that, I make do with what I hope is a winning personality. So far this has just got me into the "you're just like a brother" stage with women. sigh

Any suggestions?

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
3/19/2006 7:52 pm

I don't know.....but you sound so open and sweet in this blog. If you show that side of you to these women....perhaps it will help. Good luck in your search!

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