rm_cjcj9 42F
745 posts
2/11/2006 7:53 am

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4/13/2006 5:06 pm


Everyone does it...but, specifically, I would like to know about women...How do you self satisfy? Do you have toys, use your fingers, do it completely naked, are you open about it, do you like your partner to watch, what is your favorite toy, do you watch porn to get aroused, do you get into it and fantasize about a specific scenario, a certain cock, etc?

Men...are you turned on by watching a woman satisfy herself? How do you think most women do it? Have you ever caught your lover?

TampaCouple2006 57M/54F

2/11/2006 9:58 am

I have usedmost methods, toys and fingers. But in all truth it is not as satisfying as it is with someone else. Watching porn just makes me want it more. I love it when he watches me, because I know as soon as I climax he will jump in and bring me more climaxes.

Costner28 45M

2/11/2006 10:31 am

I am totally aroused by watching a woman pleasure herself, especially if she is really into it and is vocal. I think most woman use toys(the rabbit, vibrating eggs, mini vibes) and their fingers. What I have heard lately is woman really love their shower heads, spraying a hot stream of water on their clit. Anyone tried the shower head? I have never caught a lover pleasuring herself but have suggested to a lover to let me watch her use her toy.

Waiting to hear how CJ handles masturbation and her thoughts on it

a_poetman 47M

2/11/2006 10:19 pm

Never caught anyone...

I find it very erotic and stimulating to watch!

Thanks for jump starting my thoughts.....

rm_molittle69 47M
117 posts
2/11/2006 10:41 pm

love it when a woman masterbates for me....
toys are fantastic, they should be a part of everyones repertoir, and last but not least.... and i can't stress this enough slow down and enjoy it!


yes and yes

rm_cjcj9 42F
188 posts
2/12/2006 9:12 am

TampaCouple...thanks for posting...yes...I agree...I wish I could keep a man in my closet just for those needs. You are a lucky woman!!!

Costner...I will have to try the shower head. I have heard that it is very nice!!! I'll let you know....


Molittle...Yes...I love toys! I agree everyone should use them...and I do slow down and enjoy it...I can satisfy myself for hours!

rm_emmie234 53F
608 posts
2/12/2006 4:42 pm

CJ- I am a definite fan of toys. I have 2 vibes that I am in love with! LOL, I use them mainly external stim. Even though I orgasm with these toys, I never feel completely satisfied alone.

gussax 52M

2/13/2006 12:51 am

cjcj9: My ex-lover and I were into mutual masturbation. If she needed more I couldn't quite satisfy I was OK with her getting herself off. I would usually lie next to her and when she started getting near, I would then be turned on enough that I could jerk off next to her. Sometimes though when I would be watching her dress in the morning I would be jacking it, and when I was close I would call her over and she would quickly take over for me and finish me off. It was some good times.

Plano69 55M

2/13/2006 7:26 am

I get aroused watching an attractive woman... I'd love to watch you...

HotTXpussy4U 49F

2/13/2006 10:13 am

Well, it's no secret that I love toys. Probably too much. I'd love to be more open about it and be able to share that with a partner - hmmm, maybe that's why I'm on this site. I do know that if someone is watching..I can not last as long. You say slow down - but I only want to go faster and faster.......

Great - now I have to sit at my desk and think about this all day - - LOL

softnlush 54F

2/18/2006 8:51 am

I like toys for masturbation but rarely use them..I will usually find myself touching myself while remembering a specific thing,recently I have found myself thinking of 2 people that I actually am with sexually and another who i want to be with I will use my fingers,softly cupping my sex and with my forefinger and middle finger I will use my lips to rub my clit,I find this method to be "indirect" clit stimulation,it makes it last longer and it builds,when I get to the point of wanting to release then I go from that to direct clitoral stimulation..mmmmmm...very intense..mmmmm

3 posts
2/18/2006 7:24 pm

My ex-wife and I are best friends and there is one thing that we still do...we actually meet up now and then for a "masturbation session" We sit in front of each other and go at it at the same time...It turns us both on TREMENDOUSLY!! Very vocal to the point that we even tell each other how we want the other one to do it! She did caught me in the bathroom once when we were married and told me I didnt have to hide, so we started doing it in front of each other. Its hot and I think everyone should do it.

rm_cjcj9 42F
188 posts
2/20/2006 5:11 am is not the same. I have 2 vibes, too and they just can't replace a man!!

gussax...It does sound like good times! can watch me anytime!!

HotTX...hope it wasn't too hard to sit at your desk and think about it!!

softnlush....sounds very nice!

BIGJOHNSON!!!!!! That sounds really hot!!! She's a lucky woman to be able to watch the likes of you!

3 posts
2/21/2006 8:24 pm

thanks...would love to perform for you.

Plano69 55M

3/1/2006 10:17 pm

Oh, I wanted to add that I've learned volumes of how to touch and please a woman by watching them touch themselves... Very educational stuff...
I'd LOVE to watch you, CJ... wow!

rm_jackbjr6969 65M
20 posts
4/13/2006 5:28 am

I have so many different ways I like to masturbate. I use toys,
vibrators, oils, lotions, pulsating water jets and on and on. It is
so tough to pick a favorite. Here is one of my favorite ways:
I will wait for a weekday and nobody is going to be home. I will
get into a warm bath and just relax. I will wash my body except I
don't touch my cock. I will slowly feel my arousal
getting higher and higher, I will get into a good fantasy (lately I
have been thinking about friends I have seen in the recent past. I just lay back and enjoy the fantasy. I can feel my cock starting
to respond. It starts to tingle with pleasure. I will do this for a
while then get out of the tub. After drying myself off I can still feel my whole body tingling. I will go into the bedroom and turn on the stereo with some soft atmosphere music. I get my favorite body lotion and lay on the bed with my legs spread apart. I take a hand full of lotion and rub it on my cock. It gets hard and sensitive. I take plenty of lotion and rub it all around and then slowly I work my way inside my ass. I can feel my cock swell and double in size and becomes very responsive. I keep one hand on my cock as my other hand works on my ass. My cock starts to throb with pleasure. I will keep stroking as my fantasy level increases. I visualize a girl I know is sucking on my cock. Gently rubbing her tongue all around. As my fantasy increases so does my arousal rate. My hips start to buck up and down and I start to scream out in pure pleasure. I am very vocal during any type of sex. I really get into the sensations and go with it. I will bring my self right up to the point of orgasm and then stop... then after I calm down I start over and let myself explode with a great orgasm...... write me.. jackbjr6969 on yah00

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