Bad by Association  

rm_chnbb25 40F
24 posts
3/15/2006 9:03 am

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3/27/2006 7:02 pm

Bad by Association

Do any of you have that one friend? The one who is kinda shady and borderline, but is a good friend to you when you need it? Well I have one and she comes into my personal business sometimes and recks shop! She constantly thinks she is saying and doing things that are harmless, but she fails to realize that people judge me based on the way she acts! I am a very genuine, caring, and considerate person that is constantly getting judged harshly by association to this woman who can't seem to keep her mouth shut or keep it all real. The worst part of all of this is that I really don't want to lose this person as a friend, but I have lost other friends because of her playful, yet not straight laced games.I'm not sure she knows she is playing in the grey.....When attempting to talk to the woman about it doesn't work, I run out of options. So what is a gal to do?

Please make sure you have a great week, you deserve it!

rm_time4u4fun 49M

3/15/2006 10:42 am

Why don’t you be straight with here, if a guy asked you to have sex with him who you did not want to you would tell him well diplomatically ask your friend to help your business by acting in a more appropriate way if she does not want to then maybe she is jealous about what you have accomplished and intentionally wants to s=destroy it decide for yourself is she going to be your friend in the next 20 years if not tell here to go

rm_chnbb25 40F
5 posts
3/15/2006 3:01 pm

Thank you all for these great comments....I do need to make a stand on this issue and see where our friendship will stand after that......

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