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rm_chislut 43F
1534 posts
4/28/2006 8:36 am

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Porn


I like porn. I've always liked written pornography, stories, etc. The first few times I saw porn photos, I found them more interesting than a turn-on, but I did find them VERY interesting. I didn't see video porn until I was in my 20s. Same thing, interesting at first and not a turn on until later.

You know those questions, like a parlor game, where your answer has a different meaning or interpretation than what it first seems like? I don't think I'm describing that very well. I know there's a name for this type of question and answer game, but I can't think of it right now.

Anyway, there's one that goes like this: You're on an African safari vacation. While on tour, your guide stops to point out an event. There's a lion savagely killing and/or eating his/her prey. What is your initial reaction to seeing this?

When I was asked this my answer was that I would be completely fascinated in a sort of scientific way. Then, I'd also wonder if it was real at all. Was this set up to happen at this time so that the tourists would be able to see it? Did that make the event itself any different? I'd wish I could get closer and really see all the details.

Then I found out that your answer was supposed to be the same as you felt (or would feel) the first time you saw porn! Ha! It totally worked for me. I'm fascinated by sex. By what others do and how they do it and what it looks like.

There are two major streams of thought I have about porn that I want to share via this blog. Which one should go first? Or are the inextricably connected? One is, to sum it up, probably inadequately, how does porn affect what our expectations are in regards to sex. The other is, why do women get so upset about their significant others' use of porn?

I think opinion number two has a lot to do with assumptions about the answer to opinion number one.

My blog posts are always too long. My opinions/thoughts on these two topics regarding porn to be posted separately and later.

timo-timo 70M

4/28/2006 11:32 pm

First: I hope you dug deep enough into my blog to find my erotica;
Second: is there a primal gratification in letting go of thought to allow experiences of being....

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rm_xxxeddie 52M
8 posts
4/29/2006 6:15 am

the expectations are definitely increased, we our amateurs when in comes to sex, we did not go to school or had a specially been trained on the subject, and last (most sadly) we do not practice the act any near someone who is in the business.
the next question, men live vicariously through porn, they imagine what they see as happening to them, therefore vicariously cheating; women and men have different psychological and biological predisposition towards sex;
women biologically are limited to the amount of children(sex) they can have while men are not, therefore the amount they want is not limited in that fashion so their desires/needs are greater...


rm_chislut replies on 4/29/2006 8:38 pm:
1) I don't necessarily think that expectations are increased, just that they are affected.

2) You can't cheat vicariously.

3) Children and sex are equivalent? Women are limited in the amount of SEX that they can have? How so? Seems to me that most of the time, if you're talking about straight intercourse and you seem to be doing so since you equate it with procration, that women can go many many more times than men can. So, does that mean that actually *women* want it more? Or are you saying that people's procreative ability is what drives their sex drive? So that infertile people would have no sex drive at all?

TrueTxGtlman 54M

4/29/2006 5:01 pm

From my little knowledge of this topic {ROFLMAO} I can say I don't think of ways I can use what I have seen in porn in my sex life. I know the difference between reality and fantasy. As for me, I am blessed my wife doesn't mind me watching porn and she will watch it to get in the mood also. I do know that a more realistic erotic story is something I would prefer to view.

*TTG*


toothysmile 52M
16517 posts
4/30/2006 7:37 am

Fascinating!
Thanks for sharing...
Want to watch some porn together?...


rm_chislut replies on 5/2/2006 1:55 pm:
Got any recommendations? Seen anything good lately?


Westhill19 54M

4/30/2006 1:20 pm

Hello chislut.
You probably will not believe this story,yet it's true,lol.
I was visiting Macs blog earlier and saw your comment there.
What drew my attention to you was,yes you've guessed it,your pic.
I laughed aloud when I viewed your blog and saw this post,how appropriate !
Need I say more ?
Yes,I need,lol.
What a fantastic pic !!
Take it easy...


absolutelynormal 57F
6563 posts
5/1/2006 5:29 am

It's your blog, you can make a post as long or short as you like. There are no rules here, you get to make your own. BLOG ON!!! Mac


rm_chislut replies on 5/2/2006 3:28 pm:
LOL! Good point!

KC_JJ 55M

5/1/2006 9:45 pm

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I cant help but wonder how you'll respond to my porn collage series of images. Here's a link to the latest one which has links to all the others.

Porn Collage 08

Sorry about the size of them but if you want to see some at a larger size email me for a network invite. As it stands right now that's the only way I can invite you to my network - by responding to a received email.

Anyways I hope to get some feedback about your response even if it's not so favorable. Interesting Blog BTW. Hope you stick around and keep adding to it.

KC_JJ


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