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rm_ca_lady80 37F
7 posts
4/6/2006 12:18 pm

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frustrated


So, lately I have been having great fantasies about people I know. How do I get them from my dreams to my bed? I want to please and be pleased. Any ideas out there?

GretaInsetGrunt 37M

4/6/2006 1:22 pm

yea tell them you wanna fuck im sure that will work


patrick8463 55M
124 posts
4/6/2006 1:34 pm

send me your e-mail address we chat , I get your telephone number and I call you , you give me your address and I meet you , and then I take you to bed ,

I can be in your bed tomorrow night , just answer this


tamethytension 55M
2320 posts
4/6/2006 2:48 pm

As to seeing your desires realized, define for yourself what you are looking for at a minimum (not at a maximum) and ask yourself whether it is realistic to find this in the girlfriends you have. Are they of like mind towards your own goals for instance. From there you simply will need to communicate your desires. Once you are comfortable with someone, don't be afraid to very specific about your need to please and be pleased. Do not skimp on either. Ultimately, you are looking for a level of honesty as the basis for the necessary level of trust. That requires first being honest with yourself and then honest with your prospective partner.

cheers

TTT


SirluvsStorms 47M
684 posts
4/6/2006 11:47 pm

Well said Tamethytension. Like in everything .. understanding what you want helps you see it when its right before you. Also helping someone else get what they want usually is beneficial in helping you get what you want. I never new when I met blondy that I would fall so deeply for her. Let alone get to spend wonderful moments with her. Be open to the unexpected cuz the unexpected happens
Sir


CaliCouple1963 54M/55F
2 posts
4/7/2006 12:27 am

Don't blurt out your fantasies. casually mention something like, "I read this article about....", and fill in a vague reference to your fantasy. Watch their reactions. Are they horrified, interested, knowledgable? This little exercise should give you a clue or two about which of your friends is inclined to fulfill your fantasy with you, if any.


SirMounts 103M

4/23/2006 6:46 am

    Quoting CaliCouple1963:
    Don't blurt out your fantasies. casually mention something like, "I read this article about....", and fill in a vague reference to your fantasy. Watch their reactions. Are they horrified, interested, knowledgable? This little exercise should give you a clue or two about which of your friends is inclined to fulfill your fantasy with you, if any.
I very much agree with being as indirect about it as possible, depending on the circumstances, of course.
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