Questions for the Ladies  

rm_bluegenes51 57M
115 posts
3/24/2005 11:40 am

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Questions for the Ladies

1.) Without any qualifiers (looks, wealth, personality, etc) what is the ideal age for a man in relation to your age? This is: 2 years younger, 4 years older, etc.

2.) Which do you prefer in a guy, youth or sexual experience? (Can't say

3.) Why do women feel that they need AdultFriendFinder to find a sex partner? Are you really looking for a sex partner or a compatible dating partner?

Thank you, in advance for your responses.

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
3/24/2005 2:00 pm

ok here we go lol,As a married women living in a village AdultFriendFinder is great for finding new friends.
My hubby is the same age as me so i prefer my lovers up to 10 years younger and no more than 5 above.I prefer experiance,but youth have does have some advantages

I'm a

i'm here to stay

Merry49 62F

3/24/2005 5:10 pm

1) 5-10 years younger

2) Experience, by far

3) Why would you make such an assumption as that? It's not a need at all for me, but one avenue of exploration, especially for a person as shy as myself. I'm looking for a compatible sex partner, someone who enjoys being in my company before, during and after sex. Dating partner? That's a possibility anywhere in life you meet some, but certainly not what I seek. Why does a friendship/association/arrangement/understanding or whatever you want to call it have to have a niche that it fits into? Why must it be labeled? It also speeds things up for me. As I've had my little sexual revolution very late in life (in my 40s) I've got lots of making up to do! lol

rm_bluegenes51 57M
245 posts
3/25/2005 4:07 am

Thanks to all for your comments. I am more confused than ever,

daintynipples 53F

3/30/2005 11:27 am

Here is my take....

1 - Age is not a deciding factor as much as personality and maturity or lack there of...I have met 20 something men who totally captured my attention mentally, physically and all the above. I have found men who are older than me who create the same and even more intense reaction in me. For me age is not as much a factor as chemistry or spark and part of that is having things in common, needs, desires, etc.

2 - Hands down sexual experience...I am a quality woman vs quantity and at times, u can have both....what a rush!

3 - Having been in a very sexually repressed marriage my reason for being on AdultFriendFinder is to put myself in the company of like minded who truly want to please a woman and are ready to have a woman please them...I feel like on AdultFriendFinder I have the opportunity to get to know and meet men who are like minded sexually and who have alot going for themselves outside of the bedroom. I am not a one night stand kinda woman but not looking at every man I meet with my eyes on a permanent relationship. Being sexually compatible is very important to me...not the only think I look for but if I fell for a man and the sex was not what I wanted I would not stay with him...I hope that doesnt portray me as shallow but I want more than the missionary position on Saturday nights...*wink*

kisses & licks!

rm_EE407 42F
3903 posts
4/2/2005 1:32 am

I feel the need to add my view so here goes:

1) I prefer older, amount of years not that important I guess... I'll take Sean Connery any day of the week and twice on Sunday.

2) EXPERIENCE... that's a no-brainer!

3) On a f f i'm mostly looking for fun chatting in the rooms. Meeting is something I do on occasion. I'm not looking for a steady dating thing. More like a compatibility with sex and indeed a man that enjoys my company before, during and after. I do need to have some kind of connection with the guy. A goodlooking dick and knowing how to use it to pleasure a woman ain't all it's about either....

Mmmmm.. am confusing myself, so will stop now!

GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
4/2/2005 7:38 am

I prefer about the same age or a bit older. Tho I do agree with EE... I'll welcome him in anytime.

2. EXPERIENCE absolutely, definitely, completely

I didn't 'need' anything wnen I stumbled on ~this friendly site~ and joined out of curiosity. I like to chat in the rooms and have found some great friends.

I'm not in 'need' of a quick fuck or any one night stand that offers himself in the mail or in the rooms for that matter. I have met and will meet peepz for several reasons. There has to be more than just the 'need' for sex to come together and do whatever develops from meeting. It's to see if there is that 'click' and if it's there something nice can happen *G*.

rm_bluegenes51 57M
245 posts
4/7/2005 11:08 am bad..."Why do women feel that they need AdultFriendFinder to find a sex partner?" was a poor choice of words...Should have been more like, "Do women actually use this site to find sex partners?" To those that took offense to the word, "need"..sorry...

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