rm_bludlfn 54M/42F
5 posts
10/26/2005 4:25 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Howdy. We are Mimbari (extra credit if you can tell me where that comes from ) and Bludlfn. We have been married 8 years and for 7 of those have lived in the Rose City. Im Mimbari and I guess it has fallen to me to be the blog keeper. When she feels up to it, Im sure Blu will chime in and tell everyone that Im full of shit...LOL.
I guess Ill start with a bit about us. Im 42, Blu is just shy of 30 and in the last few months our life together has been turned upside down and inside out. Now the worst is over and we are moving on with our life together. Ill leave it to Blu to fill in the details. We have no children, well no human ones anyway. We are going through life with our two black labs, Jake and Sarah, who think they are children.
With this new begining of ours, Blu decided to take out an ad on Friend Finders. I have to admit I was alittle hesitant at first. This will be my second foray into the "lifestyle." My X and I were active in the Los Angeles swing scene, but this is her first time out. I know Im going to be very overprotective, but shes making the rules and calling the shots, and if there is anything Ive learned over the years, she has good instincts, unless of course shes giving driving directions.
As I pondered this new direction, I had to examine my own motivations for going along with this. I love sex and variety. I love making friends and my picture is in the dictionary under extrovert and exhibitionist. I guess it was reading some of the profiles that made the decision for me. I saw some folks listed that, even if we didnt connect on a sexual level, that I sure wouldnt mind adding to our circle of friends.
Well thats all for now. We have answered three ads for now. I guess we will just wait and see what happens

rm_bludlfn 54M/42F
2 posts
10/30/2005 9:33 am

hanx for the kind words....I just hope I can get the hang of using this darned thing. Usualy I ask the 14 year old kid across the street to help me with technology, but I dont think he will be able to help with this...LOL

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