All Grown Up  

rm_blkondemand 37M
138 posts
6/15/2006 4:21 am

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All Grown Up

What I want to say most today about this site is that it is not called AdultFriendFinder for nothing. I am enjoying for the first time in my life being exposed to people who in a very adult way are not being so concerned about what others think about them that they won't project their TRUE desires without shame. The LIE that "opposites attract" is finally being exposed.

I have wasted so much time on the internet in years past dealing with fakers. This site has its share as well, but for the most part you can weed them out and get to the people who are 'bout it and not just posing.

With that said, for all of you who are still scared to be you........there is no future in putting up a front. Eventually you are going to have to unveil "the real you" if you want to make a true connection. Don't be afraid to project who you are (your innermost perversions and perceived faults and deficiencies). Like me.....I'm not ashamed to say I drink at the Y FOUNTAIN.

You'll find when you bare all, others who have shed their egos will appreciate your willingness to be honest and you'll find that there is someone for everyone. You'll finally be accepted in a community of folks that perhaps think and act like you do or always wished that they had the courage to do so. Then you'll unleash the beast that has been trying to get out and have some fun for as long as you can remember.

rm_atlbiatl 41F
8 posts
6/15/2006 4:54 am

I agree with you. (Who could disagree with that face?) But seriously, like the facial picture thing. I was hesitant to put my face on this site initially, but then I was thinking if anyone ever sees me on here and mentions it to me or someone else, they'll have to admit that they were on the site, too. And you're right, for the first time I feel liberated in saying "so what, yes I like it like that". If you don't ask, you don't get. I can pull my panties down here and still block you if you don't know how to act. If I pull them down in the club, I may not make it out of the parking lot.

rm_blkondemand replies on 6/16/2006 3:52 am:
I have had a couple of responses (from women) asking me why I chose to make my main picture a photo of my flacid penis while I have a face picture in my profile. Initially it was the other way around but I decided that if it was going to turn women or anyone off that I am a nudist, it was better to put it out there right away and not waste time with folks who have aversions to nudity.

keithcancook 61M
17930 posts
6/15/2006 6:05 am

Life's journey is one of discovery. Discovering ourselves is a large part of it.

Blog On!

mickdevil 51M/53F
3496 posts
6/15/2006 7:06 am

I can unleash the beast behind my bedroom door or on the wknds lol the rest of the time I'm in a cage lol welcome to blog land


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rm_blkondemand 37M
236 posts
6/16/2006 4:00 am

Very cool

runzwithknives 61F

6/17/2006 5:40 pm

Nice post. And very true. We do bare all here. Welcome to blogland. Enjoy the wonderful folks here. Hugs

rm_blkondemand replies on 6/18/2006 4:38 am:
I appreciate your comment. Please post more comments in future posts.

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