Slow to start...  

rm_bcin76009 45M
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11/23/2006 6:40 am

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12/16/2006 11:42 pm

Slow to start...

So I posted this blog and posted a message in a group I joined. Got one response, which is better than none. I think I'm unique in that I want to just talk right now, I want to talk to other guys who are either doing this or are interested in doing it, just to see what their experiences have been or what's holding them back, find other people I can relate to either how I feel now or how I'd feel once I got going... I'm pretty open minded to their experiences, just because I don't want to do something (yet) doesn't mean I don't want to hear what they prefer. I'd pay for the site but not knowing what to expect it's hard to justify it at this point. So I'll keep trying what I can and report back.

rm_therite13 53M

11/24/2006 7:20 am

Honestly, I think I'd need to see how I feel, naked, in front of a naked man - what's happening down below - up or down - yah know.

rm_bcin76009 45M
1 post
11/25/2006 4:34 am

Do you mean you're curious but not sure exactly how you'd end up feeling once you actually got into that situation? I guess I'm kind of that way too which is another reason why I want to get to know them first. The more comfortable we are with each other when it comes down to it, the easier it will be to follow through. Society tells us it's bad and although we don't want to listen to society it's hard to ignore in the moment. But it makes it a lot harder when you meet someone for the first time, do something, then leave, it makes the whole experience of meeting them feel like that. Where if y'all have met a few times then while you're together watching a football game it happens, it seems a little more like two friends getting off. The question is how many options like that exist in here?

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12/10/2006 1:31 pm

I thouroghly agree with you BCIN. I would much rather take things slow and get to know someone first before getting started with something like that. I have been wanting to do this for along time too and I am just not comfortable meeting someone and getting to it right off the bat. Just sitting around and having something happen seems like alot more fun and exciting than feeling like you have to perform for someone. There is something to be said for the comfort factor.

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