First entry!  

rm_barbiebaby09 50F
22 posts
1/16/2006 6:37 am

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First entry!

This is wild! I never thought I'd join a dating site - if that is what this would be called!

It's just that I have no idea about how to go about meeting a woman that I could truly be friends with and have it possibly become sexual as well (okay hopefully become sexual). I'm clueless that way!

Before I married my current husband, I used to be really, really good at being able to flirt with and pick up men. I was incorrigible. Now I'm an out of practice incorrigible flirt! LOL

My husband and I have a very satisfying sex life together. We are VERY happily married, as a matter of fact. After having been together for nearly 6 years, we are rediscovering one another all over again. You know, we're on that upswing where we are "IN LOVE" again. It is a wonderful feeling.

One of the things we've discussed a lot lately though is the fact that I want a female lover; but I'm not so sure I could only have a relationship based on sex alone. I'm looking for a friendship as well; somebody I can hang out with and watch movies, have over to dinner, play board games with, talk on the phone and IM with - an all around type of relationship that includes friendship, trust, respect, sex and more. He is very supportive of this and wants only for my happiness and satisfaction.

Problem is that I don't get out much and wouldn't even begin to know where to look for such a friend. And my husband has a position in which discretion in this area is so very important.

Whoa is me! LOL

rm_ohsolustful 59M
859 posts
1/17/2006 11:39 am

Oh I'm sure you will find what your looking for, just be patient, seems there are lots of people around who are all talk and no show...hang in there and Good luck

TongueTease4Grls 37M
10 posts
1/17/2006 1:44 pm

Well, one way, that i try, is the easiest.. go into the chats. It takes a little time, but you'll start to meet both men and women, and in no time you'll get what you want.
But it does take a little patience, i've met dozens of young girls, but only actually gotten together with 2. There are a few fakes, so be careful.

rm_barbiebaby09 50F

1/18/2006 10:54 am

I will be certain to be careful. I am a bit cautious anyway. I am looking forward to finding my way around here.

Rockhard2x6 55M

1/19/2006 7:23 am

I certainly envy you and your husbands sex life. When my wife and I were dating sex was satisfying. She made us quit for a year of our engagement. Then on our honeymoon you would think we would make up for it, nope only twice the whole honeymoon. Afterthat is was maybe once a month, even after I gave her, her 1st orgasm. Now after 13 years it is maybe twice a year and only because she feels sorry for me and it is totally mechanical. I hate it like that.

rm_barbiebaby09 50F

1/19/2006 9:46 pm

That would be rough!

We went through a dry spell for a couple of years; but we've recently pulled out of it and things are so much better. A really honest communication is what it took for us.

HotPockets2003 60F
1 post
1/21/2006 8:13 am

read your profile and think you have been messing with the wrong women if you hadn't be pleased yet. Get hold of me and I am sure you will be begging for some more

rm_barbiebaby09 50F

1/22/2006 9:20 am

*grin* Begging huh? And what makes you so sure of that???

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