If I may be serious for a moment.  

rm_babyboomer26 68M
781 posts
9/6/2006 8:57 pm

Last Read:
9/13/2006 10:15 pm

If I may be serious for a moment.

I made a connection with someone I met on this site. She has a fabulous personality and she likes my sense of humor. We play off each other wonderfully. We have emailed back and forth and texted and talked for hours on the telephone. Every contact we have had has been terrific. Our mutual on-line friends think we're made for each other.

I invited her to Florida for a long weekend and she accepted. We've made all the arrangements to get her here and I've changed my work schedule to have the time off. We have exchanged photos and web cammed, so there should be no physical surprises when we meet. I expect we will get along in real life as well as we do in cyber space. I'm very excited to meet her in the flesh. I want to make mad, passionate love to her all weekend long. I look forward to our tryst with great anticipation, yet with some trepidation as well.

I find myself wondering, do I really want us to hit it off so well? If, God forbid, this turns into something more than a weekend lark, it would open a whole can of worms and cause a lot of complications. You see, she lives two thirds of the way across the country from me. I'm not sure we could sustain a long distance relationship of that magnitude. How hard would it be if I wanted to be with her all the time and yet could manage only a weekend every now and then? 2,000 miles is not exactly an easy commute. I have always been secure enough in myself that I've never really had a jealous bone in my body, in previous relationships. Yet how would I feel if my lover was so far away?

So I ask myself, do I want us to make a real emotional attachment or would it be better to just have a hot weekend affair? (There's also the possibility that we actually will not like each other in person when we meet.) Which will it be? Which would be better? I truly do not know.

We now return you to your regularly scheduled humor.


electriccompany 54M

9/6/2006 10:13 pm

What are you worrying about, Booms? Falling that deeply in love hasn't happened yet! Have some real-life fun together first.

Best case scenario: You fall so in love that making big changes in your lives is small potatoes compared to the rewards.

Worst case scenario: You've met, had fun, know better and can move along. Plus after she goes back home, you can post to your blog about how she makes sea otter noises when climaxing!

(Sorry, Boomer. I just couldn't hold my serious very well!)

JuicyBBW1001 56F

9/7/2006 3:00 am

Well Boomer let me tell ya a story. I met the most wonderful man in fact he is the man of my dreams on AOHell last year. We chatted for 8 months every day for hours at a time it seems. And even on the phone. Then when I got ready to give up on meeting him he surprised me and told me he was coming to Tampa to see me graduate from college. I was estatic but also worried because in my heart of hearts I knew he would not find me attractive enough to consider a relationship with me. But I had to try because I wanted to know myself if he was as open minded as he claimed to be.
We had a great time on our weekend and his kids are great. My daughter and his kids got along so well they have all been buggin to see one another again. But J and I know now there could be no possibility of a relationship with one another because he is not attracted to me in the way that I am to him. We have continued our friendship and continue to cheer each other on in our quest to find someone special for ourselves. My hope is in time he will see the possibility of a we becoming an "us" but even I know that may not happen.
The point I want to make to you and Rosie is enjoy what you have online with one another and if you vow to be friends and have an open mind to the possibilities of what lies ahead then everything should work out whether it just a friendship filled with one weekend of hot wild sex or if it turns into something more.
Personally I hope it works out for you both.


electriccompany 54M

9/7/2006 6:37 am

    Quoting rm_wildwestrose:
    OK, sea otter noises? I mean, I can see moaning, purring, gasping groaning, screaming, etc...but sea otter noises?

    What type of women have YOU been with Electric?

    Wild Rosie{

Hmmm. What's common about all the women I've been with?

Big, luscious, brown eyes. Playful. They like sushi (especially raw tuna). Great swimmers... OMG... The whiskers... OMG!!!

rm_sexxikritter 53F
2715 posts
9/7/2006 7:13 pm

Awwww Mr. Boomer, I feel for you. It is difficult to meet someone from so far away when the chemistry on line is so THERE. Just go with the flow and try not to create expectations of what it may or may not be. Have fun and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you two.


eclecticsoul4u 58F
942 posts
9/7/2006 7:30 pm

if it's meant to be the universe will find a away, in the meantime enjoy it with no expectations

SensuousWoman3 56F
3106 posts
9/8/2006 5:44 am

Of course all those things run through your head---you’re only human and it’s only natural. You cannot control a single iota of it, so just push those thoughts and worries right out of your mind. Do what everybody else does in your shoes---make it up as you go along. I think the two of you are going to have an absolute blast together. Live in the moment.

wickedeasy 68F  
31332 posts
9/8/2006 6:28 am

breathe man, breathe

ca sera, sera - whatever will be, will be

if you freak yourself out ahead of time you won't enjoy the time you have together

so...........go with the flow man

brought to you courtesy of WE's hippydippy side

You cannot conceive the many without the one.

rm_babyboomer26 68M
898 posts
9/10/2006 12:26 am

You people are so wise. Too much thinking, too much worrying. I'm forgetting all that shit and looking forward to a GREAT weekend!


Become a member to create a blog