Some obsessed ladies attached guys?  

rm_autumngirl61 56F
539 posts
2/28/2006 10:24 pm

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Some obsessed ladies attached guys?

I have noticed some obsessed ladies @ the guys that the ladies expected to be attached. From what I have noticed in the chatroom lately is when some guys asked ladies if they would be interested in getting to know at each other or to probably meet for some drinks or dinner. Some ladies would say yes unaware that these guys had gone out w/ their friends....or if these ladies would tell their friends first who they would go out with soon (just as they were excited about). The ladies who had gone out w/ these guys who would be about to go out w/ these friends would get mad at their friends. They would fight or cause such chatroom drama. They would lose their friendships over the same guys. Are they (the ladies) making their own rules???

I just know for one in particular who said she's seeing a guy, but this guy said he doesn't see much of her (only talking on phone after their first few meets). Even though he always respects her as a friend, he would really want to be single, not dating anyone at all. He also wants to meet some girls from this site just for fun and be friendship. This lady just assumes that he's still seeing her, but he said he isn't. She acts like he's her boyfriend. He & I both caught some things that she was lying before and AGAIN recently. she really obsessed with him??

For anybody out there, we come to this site for same reasons, so we're supposed to enjoy ourselves sexually, friendships, good experiences in new lifestyles and more. We all gotta to stay openminded. If both lady & gentleman have their feelings or start their relationships or something like that from here, then they would tell us themselves "BOTH". It's easy way to respect them both, right?? I know one wonderful couple who met here and got married recently, and we all were very happy for them. There's also another couple who met here and "will" get married soon. That's just great. Gotta to love the love stories from here.

That's all I think I can say here to get out of my chest.

vengeur 42M  
837 posts
3/1/2006 9:06 am


I think the issue you've raised her meshes well with my "Virtual catfight" blog entry.

rm_autumngirl61 56F
741 posts
3/1/2006 7:06 pm

Yes, vengeur, I know that. I just feel my message doesn't show good enough. I'm still pissed off about this. I have seen some others getting problems like that, but I only got one. It just tickles me off!!

want2play926 46F

3/4/2006 9:17 pm

The question also should be , Did he tell her how he really feels? And if he did and she is still saying they are dating....for me I would head for the hills!!!!!

rm_autumngirl61 56F
741 posts
3/5/2006 11:46 pm

want2play, yes, he told her that he still wants to stay being single and that he wants to enjoy meeting other ladies, new people, etc. He still wants to stay that way always. He said he even told her that. The only prbm was that she didn't take it every well. Now she behaved badly in the chatroom when she saw some girls talking to him.

miss_crabtree2u 50F

3/11/2006 7:31 pm

You bring up some great points Autumn!

As far as the obsessed/attached issue, I think open, honest communication are key!

I also think it is hard when you meet someone and are honest enough to tell them that you just don't click. But it becomes totally pathetic when they get all pissed off and catty when you do hit it off with someone else from the room. I can't believe people can be so petty. Just because they are miserable doesn't give them the right to be nasty, back-stabbing, whining bitches.

I have met some wonderful people from the room and enjoy the friendships and laughs we share. It wish everyone luck in their pursuits of happiness and whatever else they are seeking.

rm_autumngirl61 56F
741 posts
3/11/2006 9:26 pm

miss crabtree, yes, I know how important the open communication from each other are whether they want to go further more than friends. Sometime they couldn't take that well, so that would be a serious problem. BUT they don't have the right to cause such drama in the chatroom or to harass some people on yahoo.

And also I hate to see when some girls said they are seeing guys who said they're not. I have seen one, but heard what others talked about more. My goodness.....this is the sex & swinger site, for heaven's sake.

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