AFF's meet & greet parties  

rm_autumngirl61 56F
539 posts
2/21/2006 6:33 pm

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3/16/2006 12:26 pm

AFF's meet & greet parties

I had started coming to some AdultFriendFinder's meet & greet parties ever since last summer. They were just great. I mean I got to meet those ones that I had been chatting with in Philly/Tri-state chatroom. Most of them were what the AdultFriendFinder profiles said they were. The parties were just great. I noticed some guys coming to the parties expecting that they would get laid. Well, some ladies were, too. As for me, I just expected to meet them BOTH to make great friends from this site, so that I could chat more w/ them or to hang out more oftenly w/ them. Having blast to be around them again & again. I'm a very loving person, so it's easy to get along with everybody in or out of the chatroom. Well, sometimes, it's not. Some ladies were jealous. Some guys were bit pushy & aggressive. I just didn't understand some of them at the parties.

Lately, I started feeling panic attack like the one that was held last Saturday, 2/18 in King of Prussia. The party was a big one. I was very excited getting the room and to meet some great friends to hang out for few hours like some drinks & to eat dinner before getting in the shower to get ready for the party. After the shower, I started feeling bit of labor breathing. I just knew that I won't be at the party on time like I told a host I would. As I was dressed, wore makeup, getting my hairstyle done, I started to stall myself from leaving the room. I had a male roommate there who was my best friend, and yeah, he knew how I would feel. I told him to go, so I could meet him & others downstairs within 5 minutes. 20 minutes later, he came back up wondering if I was ok. I ended up showing up at the party almost an hour late after drinking many bottles of Coor Lite, lol. I got drunk there and felt just great. Only it sucked that I made many trips to the bathroom making the party more shorter for me, lol. My date arrived late and I felt much better being around him until the end.

I mean I love parties in my life, but this AdultFriendFinder ones are so much different from other parties. I went to a million of college parties during my college years. I just couldn't believe @ panic attack myself. I guess I must have more sentative myself, eh?

Do you all have your own parties in other states? If so, what are they like? I believe there are many ladies that were afraid @ going to the parties like I was. So, maybe some of your comments would be more helpful to our friends here.

want2play926 46F

2/22/2006 6:00 am

I have yet to go to a party from this site....but when I do, I will let you know how it goes.

nastyfunwild 46F

2/22/2006 3:23 pm

autumngirl..I have been to several parties here in Pittsburgh and 2 out by Philly area..Ours don't have that many people but the ones who to come are very respectful..The guys I have met have all been nice and so have the women. .. I would encourage anyone who wants to go to Meets to go and have fun

rm_yknot59 59M

2/28/2006 5:50 am

Hi Autumn, I saw your response on Nasty's blog, I didn't feel it was right to talk to you through her blog, LOL I will be in AC from Monday to Friday in late April. 24th to 28th I think. I might be able to stay thru Sunday but I'm not sure. I do have concerns with meeting people from the PGH area. I sometimes go to the Philly Tristate chat room. I am not a paying member so I don't have all the opions to use to contact people. I'll look for some of the posts that you mentioned. Look for me if you're on. Thanks

rm_autumngirl61 56F
741 posts
2/28/2006 9:31 pm

want2...yeah, you'd better let me know, becuz I'd really love to meet you sometimes, hun.

nastyfunwild, yeah, like I said in your blog that I hope to come to one of Pittsburgh meet & greet parties someday...w/ carpool, of course. It's like 6-7 hour drive from here, lol. BTW: it was so wonderful to meet you @ KOP party finally last week. *hugs*

yknot, hey!! Ok, but you can try coming to one of the meet & greet parties in your area or Phila area someday. It would be a good experience for you. BTW: not sure if I'll be available during that week, becuz of works.

vengeur 42M  
837 posts
3/1/2006 9:03 am


I have been going to the meet and greet parties for about two years now, and like you, I feel that sometimes that can easily cause concern. However, they are also great fun, given that they present the opportunity to meet others from the chat room in an open evironment.

rm_autumngirl61 56F
741 posts
3/1/2006 7:02 pm

vengeur, yeah, I know exactly what you mean. I don't go to any meet & greet party alone.

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