Gentleman, there really are some real LADY  

rm_aswtazgirl4u 54F
24 posts
4/16/2005 10:47 am

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Gentleman, there really are some real LADY

Take the time to read this then you will see what I'm really about,then decide if I'm worth your time instead of getting all mad because I won't meet you in the first 10 min you contact me to let you do me right!! SHEEEESH isn't they're any men out there looking for sexy,hot,erotic fun,adventuresome, relationships with one Ladi..instead of "DOING" anything that walks and as many as they can. I mean really guys and girls do you really think we women need to cum on this site to get a quikie...I think most of us are looking for that sexy, naughty, excitement with ONE man not half the USA???

Let me say first this has been sooo much fun, I found myself began as a dare from my Friday night girls ( sex in the city) club because I wouldn’t answer a personal question about me..Well I took the dare of staying on here for two weeks. Welll here I am a year later (dare over) because I actually realized this was a great way of expressing me in a nutshell. So I'm here because I was hoping I would find SOMEONE ELSE looking for the same thing with all the erotic excitement, fun, creativity, and pleasure that seems to be so taboo in relationships these days and labeled as kinky or trashy , because of what everyone else mite think what a good "relationship should be"

I, first and foremost am a LADY, a girlie girl, a women!A damn good Women!I deserve and want to be treated as one.Just because I am on here doesn't warrent anything less.I am loyal,dedicated and know how to treat my man right!I am not here screaming PLEASE F**k me I am here expressing what I want in a MY relationship/friendship and am looking to see if there is anyone out there that wants the same. No I am not perfect by far ( it's not as easy as we think to build an image of someone based on (pics and words) 38D-30-36 (yes my measurments) dk blnde, hzle eyes, 125lbs (yes ME) because we all know that we of course picture what is our desire , turn on,our dream person, you will always build the best in your mind for what you can't see or feel. I'm only as beautiful as god made me not as you might dream/like me to be or MAYBE I AM. As the old saying goes “ one mans junk is another mans treasure. I am just me!! An average girl who after many years knows what I like and want and am willing to wait till I find it. I am women but I don’t claim to roar. I want a man to open my door and hold my hand. I'd do the same for you easier to check out your butt!.lol.. I am pretty, sexy,(yet shy) sweet, eroticly open, (yet not trashy), and still blush if you show me your tool…lol…I love fantasy’s and yes naughty when I wanna be or you want me to be,and deserve a SOFT spanking I love to laff, I hate bugs ( I squeal when I see one) I love football….yes I said football…..I like icecream in the middle of the night, and a Krispy Creme donut run at 2:00am is special. I love working outside and I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty, although I'll pout later when my nails look yukky... I love to lay in bed all day and play (with you or without you)..when it’s raining outside,I love late night walks, the sun on my face and the wind in my hair, I am well versed and good with words, I can run with the best and hang with the worst,I am a softy almost to a fault but DO NOT TRY to take advantage of me!I am sassy, witty,and quik with words, I can be the best friend you could ever have or not,thats your choice.I am open for adventure and am willing to try anything once..well almost . I recently met someone, a very sweet wise soul who in short time opened my eyes to all of this.I hope you get a chance to see this ”Thankyou” I owe you one … SO YOU SEE I AM ULTIMATLY LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP/FRIENDSHIP not necessarily with strings just with some DEPTH and RESPECT not a wham bam, we all know we can get that anyware. And to all 34,885(crazy huh) of you who viewed me ,(OMG that many people have seen my silly butt. what was I thinking lol… and said hello “THANKYOU ” SERIOUSLY.. I am flattered more than you could possibly ever know.This has been a great thing for me. Some of you blew my lil mind with your mail at quite creative. To those who didn’t good luck it is an awesome adventure here. I am looking forward to what comes next……..
Ladies remember one thing ,
I truly believe "Sexy is a state of mind"
SEXY is not your looks, your words, or your right, not given,not earned,and not something someone can make YOU feel,I believe you seek it,feel it,find it with age and when you find it in yourself,believe it cause SEXY is definatly a state of mind you find all on your own.
Be True to yourself only then will you truly know and feel how sexy you really are no matter what anyone thinks...Soul searching is an amazing thing when embarking on the rest of your life after being so many other things..Now it's time to be me!!

rezlaw1 51M

4/16/2005 11:24 am

would be nice to be able to see more up close

muffdive4u2005 56M
7 posts
4/16/2005 12:09 pm

I am not sure what to say after all that. But I will say that I think
you are very honest. And that is one thing I look for in a woman. I
would love to find a woman just like you, but not sure if they really
are out there close to me. By the way, the krispy cream thing had me
laughing. Been there, done that.

See Ya.


4/16/2005 12:20 pm

you go girl...i have the same bother with men in the uk,
think your on here for a fast f**k,enough so i have had to put a note on my profile,saying i wont meet for chat only.
i will meet the right ones but on my time NOT there's.
how quickly the emails have stopped,great!! time to breath and talk to the nice guys on here.
i to have met a guy who has told me a thnig or to about the players on here,isnt it wonderful to have some one to help you out now and again,especially from the male
and yes sexy is a state of mind..i feel sexy all the
reading your blogg gave me great faith,you sound like a lovely person.Thank you
love dreamangel1969 xx xx

mygmyg 60M

4/16/2005 12:26 pm

Sweet Arizona Lady, that spells out L A D Y !!! XXX OOO
Loved reading your blog. Your strength is quite alluring, makes a large percentage run for cover, I chose to fold the covers back and hope to be so lucky to have a lady of like mind to allow me the cherished place at her side.
We feed in swarms, blindly wanting our needs filled, and the Ladies "choose" who and when will be granted this heavenly opportunity. Oh to be counted as one of the chosen few, what a lucky man indeed!!
Sweet Ariz. Lady you are the lady a mans' dreams aspire to!!

rm_TheDarkArts 47M

4/17/2005 12:39 am

"SEXY is definatly a state of mind you find all on your own."

Sing it sista!!

Sex is 95% mental, the other 5% is when you lose you concentration.

I wish you luck finding someone as interested in the dance as you =)


rm_aswtazgirl4u 54F
10 posts
4/17/2005 12:39 pm

See what I mean look at the very first response this got.... SHEEEEESH how perfect for an example " would be nice to see more up close" is all one got out of that!

1 post
5/4/2005 11:14 am

What can one say about most men, they are just looking for that next woman to satisfy their sexual needs and the hell with anything else. I can say that, yes, I do enjoy having sex and if it happens on a first date or 20th date, it is very satisfying. While I am not opposed to sex on a first date, that is not what my ultimate goal for being here is. I am looking for a woman who sticks to her convictions and is willing to at least, give a guy a chance, rare they are to find as is a man not looking to get laid and nothing more. Looking for a woman for however long our paths cross, be it a day, a week, a year, or years and always ready to learn and share.

rm_aswtazgirl4u 54F
10 posts
5/9/2005 4:27 am

Sweet MYGMYG why couldn't there be more men like you >>>>Sweet,sexy, intelligent,one who knows what to say to a Lady!! Wish I was closer to you I think an evening with you would be something to remember all the way around! You, my sweet man, deserve many sensual sexy,passionate moments. Your smile is amazing!

7 posts
6/11/2005 8:57 pm

Wow, a true all the way, past the physical, right to the heart woman!!! To bad you and I could not have met somewhere other than here (isn't that what they all say What is a lady like you doing in a place like this? Maybe the exact same thing a guy like me is doing here. Giving exposure for the one person we hope is somewhere close by. The one person who we know to be real, whole, true and can add to our lives in such a way that we're never the same again. The person that we don't have to have... because we are already happy, so therefore we are not willing to settle... but will more than likely never stop longing to encounter. We could simply stumble across the person somewhere and anywhere-even here. I have enjoyed what little conversation we have had but can't deny it lacks a beautiful smile, soft giggle, and the personality you just put into words. I was never here to see how many woman I could screw; nor to meet how many who would like to screw me. I am not lonely or desperate but will admit, being male, I am sex driven. I think it is simply in the hardware but know myself well, what I truly desire can not be found with a quick hop in the sack. I think it's what all human beings desire regardless of how out of control we get. I can be sensitive (not overly), affectionate, kind, caring and know how to be a gentleman over and above the physical desires I think we all have, I just never expected to meet a woman worthy of it here. But know now that I have. Thank you. Frank

noHaslzKnda38M 51M  
2 posts
7/23/2005 8:11 am

of all the descriptions and all the profiles i have read since becoming a member i must say .... i am without a doubt humbled by the person i belive you to be. most of us go thru lilfe blindly seeking that which we have been programed to conform to be it a mate or oneself. very rarely in this jornney called life will we ever have the cance to meet some one who is as true to them self as they are to the world around them. i can say i have been fortunate enough simply from reading these words to have been touched by such a person.
im sure that in this physical world we occupy are paths will never cross (unfortunate but probly realistic) but in the place where physical matter no longer is relavent im certain we have connected on some higher level . i just want you to know the time you have taken to search within your self to find the true person you are has inspired me to take a second look and myself and the world around me and i thank you from my heart and soul.

I82O4U2Enjoy 45M
54 posts
7/25/2005 7:25 am

To read how you feel is very understandable and has merit as well. Yet, i would suggest looking at this from different views as well. Many men come to this site with the idea of finding someone that they can be with in the real world. Whether it be as a friend, a lover, a hump and dump, an experiment, or even to see if it possible to get with someone "out of their league". When you look at some of the pictures that you are listed before you get to the profile itself, most are related towards sex and what awaits you.

I find your views and very truthful and it sounds like you have been approached the wrong way a few times over your limit. For that, i do feel for you and others that have had this happen. I wish i would get the same type of approaches from women on here that you get from these guys on the prowl. Will it happen? Most likely not. Funny thing is, that upsets me more.

Oh well, to each his and her own ways.

I believe that things will go much better with the guys that approach you ESPECIALLY if they use their main brain first and read this post...then confer with the mini head to see what is the right way to get in touch.

Have fun and looking forward to more insight into the mind and spirit of a lady.


2 posts
7/31/2005 7:20 am

Well put! I think you have said it all. Again, as a man trying to find a lady we too can just change a few words in your blog and we too feel similar. I have been divorced for 5 years and have meet many (Ladies?) but come to fiend what they (not all) are really interested. Sugar Daddy"s!! Sooner or later it will come out. I agree with you whole hearted and understand your meaning. All we can do is keep turning those stones over untill we find what we are looking for.

12 posts
8/1/2005 3:37 pm

Like your blog and it is good to see a local lady posting. I have one as well and would love for you to visit. It is still titled my blog because I have not figured out how to change the name. You look great by the way. youradaisyifyoud

rm_aswtazgirl4u 54F
10 posts
8/6/2005 2:36 pm

To Mike(noHasIzKnda38M)

You have made me look at myself again just because of your sweet words and I find myself smiling as I read your post over again because it has taken 39years for me to look in the mirror and like who I see.Yet only 25min to express myself in words.And all my life few have listened (Italian Family 5 brothers and sisters it was hard to get a word in edge wise and be heard.) Most close to me will never see this and wouldn't have understood what all my blabbering was about.I am touched and flattered that a total stranger could. Thankyou from the bottom of MY HEART AND SOUL. It's so nice to finally be heard!

Harleyriderblue 65M

9/1/2005 3:44 pm

After reading your blog, I must admit, it moved me in a way that I really don't know how to put into words right now. I am very new to this site and really don't know what to do! I do know that you expressed yourself so beautifully in so many ways, that when the phone rang, I just had to let it ring to continue reading about you. I now know that you are a wonderful person, and how great it would be to be able to talk to you. I know you have probably thousands of guys dying to meet you. After all, the "real" men would know what a "gem" you are. Thanks for your message.


Harleyriderblue 65M

9/12/2005 11:52 am

I was hoping to get a response from you, if nothing more than to say "hi" but I'm new to all this and probably not not doing something right. Have a great day!


rm_aswtazgirl4u 54F
10 posts
9/12/2005 2:20 pm

Harleyriderblue, Thankyou for your message. I am flattered and was a bit caught off guard when I read your message.I was away in Pheonix caring for my sister in-law who passed away on Sunday morning so please forgive me for not rightng back sooner.I am for once at a loss for never expected especially from the men such sweet,kind and deep thought filled comments from what I wrote.Last year I took some time to get to know myself.And this became a great way to express myself but I never expected so many thought filled responses would come out of it..thanks for taking the time to read it and enjoy it..

Harleyriderblue 65M

9/12/2005 4:24 pm

Soo sorry to hear about your sister in-law. Wow, what some tough times you've must have been going through. I feel really bad now asking you for a comment. I guess I was just hoping that you'd notice. Hope your doing ok. You must be emotionally drained. I wish there was some small thing I could do for you to help. I would be there in a flash for you. Hopefully (probably only my hopes) we will be able to talk sometime. Thanks for your message. Thinking of you,


sweetlips779 54F
4 posts
9/13/2005 3:47 am

aweee no need to feel badly for asking for a response and I did indeed notice.Honestly I really was at a loss for words. I am flattered and touched by your comments more than you probobly would imagine. I never expected to find others with like mind oh guess I thought I would just vent and noone would wrote.."I wish there was some small thing I could do for you to help".well wish granted...your wish came true because when I logged on and saw your message it brought a huge smile to my face and a sigh to my lips and that sweet man was exactly what I now my turn to say Thankyou. And I would love to talk sometime.One thing you should remember>>>>>>Without hope dreams may never come true...

Harleyriderblue 65M

9/13/2005 11:44 am

Hey there!, Is this you? Sure hope so because you definately made me blush! Glad to have made you smile. Wish I could have seen it.
As I am unexperienced in this site, and only a standard member, how can we talk? I was thinking about opening a yahoo email account because this email account is through my work, and it would be nice to be able to talk one-on-one. I know, you're probably have a hard time believing my experience level, but you'll have to at least hear my story. Yes, I've been hidden for many years. Anyway, please give me your thoughts, or hints, or advice, etc...
Still thinking of you.................

Harleyriderblue 65M

9/13/2005 3:14 pm

Hi there! I hope it's you. I tried to post a message earlier but either I or this computer messed up so I'll try again.
I'm glad I brought a smile to your face. Wish I could have seen it. And you did the same for me. I think I was actually blushing! And I didn't think that could happen anymore.
As being unexperienced in this site, please help me in finding a way to be able to talk to you. Curious, I looked into the chat rooms but didn't feel I could interject. Didn't feel I could "fit in" I guess. Maybe if two people were talking, that would work. I know, you're probably finding it hard to believe, but you'll have to at least hear my story. It's true, I've really been hidden away for many years. Just typing these message's to you, I feel my blood pressure increasing, starting to get warm in here, and I guess just getting anxious, nervous, feeling some different things. Oh well, just hope we can talk sometime. Thanks again for your sweet comments.
Still thinking of you,

Harleyriderblue 65M

9/19/2005 12:37 pm

I guess I'm just curious if you received my last two email responses. Seem folks are having problems with their posts. If you just don't want to respond, I understand that too. Have fun!

3 posts
2/27/2006 5:43 am

Loved reading your blog. But I have a question for you, what level of friendship/relationship are you looking for? I would really like to know you as a friend or lover (both would be best) an after reading your blog I feel we could relate to each other. Take care.

rm_dat4affn 60M
4 posts
9/29/2006 2:16 pm

And there really are some real men! Not many in my opinion yet the reason is more complex than the 'wam bam thank you mam' theory.

Let's start with the emotional side. Young boys are trained from a very young age to not feel. All the messages given by well meaning adults (and yes Moms included): get up, do not cry, be tough, be a man... Then we reach relationship age and women stare at us like we come from Mars and say 'what do you feel??'. Honestly, men do not feel and really do not have the tools to feel. We tend to feel the physical ailments that come along over time from not understanding how we feel. Hard attacks, cancer...the list goes on.

How can men change this and start to feel? For me, a men's group led by a very unconventional counselor that has passed away. Others may of been lucky enough to have healthy parents or work in counseling or other support groups. Yet the vast majority of men are like they are because we have listened well and now as adults are being asked to do life differently. Womens' challenge is to find the few that can feel.

Secondly, there is something to be said for the Buddhist theory of the wanting creature. The wanting creature in all of us becomes stronger when we can not get something, in other words when someone else controls when we can get something. Women control if and when men will have sex.

In conclusion, I am not defending men because we do cause a majority of the world's problems and do crappy things to women. I would like to give credit to the ones that are working to change how we live. Single Dads, coaches that encourage boys to work out problems with their words and actions and not fists, men who work for peace and love. It is a tough climb yet worth the effort.

Thanks for giving me a change to vent.

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