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rm_art_persists 53M
1120 posts
5/20/2006 9:53 am

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grumpy


I woke up feeling grumpy today. So... I'm finally going to tell the people who are making me feel this way.

I often don't tell people when they are taking advantage of me and then I let it simmer. In the end, I need to let it all go so that it doesn't well up and become more.

Being good-natured has its disadvantages sometimes....

digdug41 50M

5/20/2006 10:10 am

Yeah art I know whatcha mean it can be overwhelming at times when poeple take kindness for weakness and they push it till you come at them sideways, its always best to set boundaries so that people know right off the bat how far you'll let them go, hang in there and try to sort it through dont let'em mess up your day

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MrNuttz05 50M

5/20/2006 11:05 am

Art,

If I may... You know that I am relocating to PHX any day now... Well, an in-law had moved in with us for a couple of weeks about 6 months ago... For the longest I had been telling her that she needs to get her shit out of my house because it's being sold, & if you don't it will be on the curb... Well, she came to get her shit last week, but you know what? It was..... on the curb. I may be nice but I am not an idiot & folks, especially the ones you love, turn you into Hitler... Do what you gotta do, the quicker the better!


rm_AnOddGirl 58F
3469 posts
5/20/2006 12:02 pm

I use to be that way. Now I stop beating the bush - I don't have the extra time to spend dwelling on shit that bugs me, and gawd knows I feel better after I chew someone out (usually being nice gets me everywhere, but some days, I'm just a bitch.)



Odds


Sulabula 46F
12659 posts
5/20/2006 2:11 pm

I woke up feeling great..and then when I opened the front door...and found my car gone....that made me very grumpy But...sometimes you have to tell people what is making you grumpy

Sula xxx

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rm_art_persists 53M
1789 posts
5/20/2006 6:30 pm

Dig: am letting people know where the boundaries are...

Nuttz: work is the main issue... Thank fuck it's not family

Odd: I won't be screaming or yelling, just telling.... People generally get it because I don't often bitch

Sula: forry about the car; hope it's being recovered (fuck I hate thieves!)


waerlookin4fun 51M/47F

5/20/2006 10:27 pm

I have the same problem.......and also it's incredibly hard for me to use the word NO.


MrNuttz05 50M

5/21/2006 8:55 am

    Quoting waerlookin4fun:
    I have the same problem.......and also it's incredibly hard for me to use the word NO.
GOTCHA! Oh boy, you just walked into this one

Can I do you, & remember, you have such a hard time saying 'NO'!


rm_art_persists 53M
1789 posts
5/21/2006 10:20 am

waer: Nuttz to you


waerlookin4fun 51M/47F

5/21/2006 12:02 pm

    Quoting MrNuttz05:
    GOTCHA! Oh boy, you just walked into this one

    Can I do you, & remember, you have such a hard time saying 'NO'!
I was not even thinking when I posted that...yep I walked right into it Yeah you can do me.....you know I wouldn't say no to Nuttz


AtomicArtist0 46M
6015 posts
5/21/2006 7:04 pm

believe it or not, I'm a quiet, mild mannered guy when not in blogland. "being good natured has its disadvanteges sometimes" I can relate. I don't like confrontation at all. Writing like a crass jerk while here is a nice release.


waerlookin4fun 51M/47F

5/21/2006 8:49 pm

Lol yep he got me on that one


dasher121 37M

5/23/2006 9:15 am

go for it man!! tell em how you feel, just duck and cover afterwards hahaha.


rm_art_persists 53M
1789 posts
5/23/2006 3:45 pm

Atomic: your shy alter ego and your superhero crass jerk?

Dasher: I let them know....


Whispersoftly5 53F
15176 posts
5/24/2006 8:26 pm

Good for you for letting them know. People will be more than happy to walk all over you if you let them. Good for you!!!

Whisper...


LadyFancyButt 47F
2793 posts
5/26/2006 8:52 pm

My lover was once grumpy....
Well he told me so...

"I'm really not complaining my love

I do love licking you

it is wonderful

multiple and sequential

this may be part of the reason I love you

but

when you scream and moan

and your legs give out

and you pass the fuck out darling

if you'd just try to tip off to the side a little

then maybe
just maybe

while you are babbling

I could breathe......."


*SHRUG*

Sometimes I guess it is OK to be grumpy????

Cheers!
and cheer up

LFB~


"At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet"
Plato


rm_art_persists 53M
1789 posts
5/27/2006 1:13 pm

Whisper: thank you

LadyFancy: that is too good


LadyFancyButt 47F
2793 posts
5/28/2006 7:14 pm

Hope you are feeling better bout life
LFB~


"At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet"
Plato


rm_art_persists 53M
1789 posts
5/29/2006 12:29 pm

LFB: I'm feeling great overall. The grumpiness was just one day.... Thank you


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