Wham Bam?  

rm_aprylc 39F
11 posts
7/19/2005 1:24 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Wham Bam?

Up late, can't sleep but very tired. I've just been wondering why most guys seem to think casual sexual relationships or "friends with benefits" think the girls want to be fucked and then left.

Just because a girl doesn't want a relationship at the moment doesn't mean she wants to miss out on the other parts of sexual interaction. Cuddling, kissing, hugging, spooning make fucking so much better.

WTB guys that realize this!


Fitasfook 47M

7/19/2005 8:13 am

We're not all like that aprylc, unfotunately I can't really prove that from over here (UK), but I'm sure there's plenty more chaps who think the same over there.....you just have to find em first!....good luck eh! ;0)


hepcat0 37M
8 posts
7/20/2005 10:27 pm

People that look hard enough will find what they are looking for if it can be found... I might have got that out of a fortune cookie, or maybe it was Bazzoka Joe. Anyway, for the most part guys are dumb. That my be an unpopular statment but with other member of my sex. Chances are that if a guy disagrees with that they are either the exception or the example and don't get it. I don't expect this to be a big or mind blowing. So I guess I'm just trying to say not to give up, you'll find someone who will understand what you want. We're not all jerk asses.


Luv2Lick0466 51M

11/2/2005 9:06 am

Hey Aprylc somepeople not necessarily you but in general confuse a good ol' roll in the hay with making love.I'm certain you know the difference A good ol' roll in the hay is sorta like a no strings,comment lifestyle.On the other hand true making love is all about Cuddling,Kissing,Snuggling and spooning.The physical portion of making love and the orgams that follow are just a bonus....AHHHHHHHH!
Take Care........ See Ya'


Luv2Lick0466 51M

11/3/2005 7:59 pm

It's not only guy's that do,a lot of women do to.To those that do such an act of selfishness hope you enjoyed it,it was your last time here.One lady friend tried that long ago first time i tried to overlook it the second time......once bitten twice your outta here!
Now she really regrets it,I really hate it for her.


littlejohn522 66M
18 posts
12/28/2005 2:05 pm

I live close to you but I'm married and don't fool around. I know what you are talking about and I like the hugging and spooning almost as much as the sex. My wife has to stay with her mother a couple of nights a week and I miss her lying next to me so very much. Some guys don't think about the caring part they just want the sex. I still get on here to look at the pictures and read the stories and blogs. Just try to keep looking and I'm sure you will find what you are looking for. I'm not a paying member so I can't send any emails to you but I wanted to let you know that some guys do like to hug and spoon.John J


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