Pleasing yourself  

rm_amuffinman 72M
10 posts
2/20/2005 9:25 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Pleasing yourself

Hi all, my question today is:

Why do women masturbate & men jerk-off?

I know it's all the same, but whats happening mentally.

Its not really a question of why, but when you are doing it what are you thinking about.

When I do it, I am usually reliving a wonderful lovemaking session. So I visualize the event and use self-stimulation to put me in the scene. I prefer that to pictures even videos. I might use them to get me started. But once I’m going my mental images take over.

I’ve also masturbated before a date so I can last longer doing the real thing. Read that in Playboy or someplace. It does work.

I'd like to know more about women pleasing yourselves. What your thinking about, what your feeling. Your Among friends.

moonwolf57 60F
1 post
2/27/2005 6:31 pm

Yes, I do masturbate. Usually with a vibrator or dildo, but sometimes with just my hands.

As for what I think about, sometimes, I do myself while watching a video, looking at a picture book, or readig erotic literature. Often, I do it while reading mail and profiles on AdultFriendFinder or ALT. I tend to be more visual than most women, so I really get off to watching videos and looking at pics in magazines and online.

If I'm not watching a video, or looking at a book or magazine (whether pictures, or words), I'm usually either reliving a former sex session, or preparing for a new one.

All in all, when I'm really in the mood, I can masturbate to whatever happens to be going on. Sometimes I'll masturbate to whatever happens to be on the TV, whether it's sexual in nature or not. Just depends on what mood I'm in. Heck, if I'm really feeling horny, I'll masturbate to the news!

rm_amuffinman 72M
6 posts
2/27/2005 9:26 pm

Wow! Sounds like girls are regular people to, Thanks,

To the news, humm. If it was a female, very low cut top. I could do it. Oh hell, I'll just close my eyes and ......

cuz me, time to beat the monkey.

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