some goodbyes are harder than others  

rm_abutoo2 45M
708 posts
5/21/2006 7:27 pm

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8/15/2006 12:06 pm

some goodbyes are harder than others

Well, here is a good bye for ya. My ex-wife is from England. She has decided she would like to move back to UK and I've decided I have to let her do this. The problem is that we have a 4 year old son. I'm getting a dose of what it's going to be like when they are gone and I can't say that I like it. They are only on holiday right now and back in a few days. But shit, what happens in August?
I always knew that this was a possibility. It would be naive to think other wise. That doesn't make it any easier a prospect though. I can't say that I would go back and do anything differently. We would still be divorced today regardless of whether she went back to UK.
Just two weeks of not seeing him or being able to talk to him as me this upset, so what's going to happen when he goes for good?
Damn, life has a way of biting us in the ass sometimes.

waerlookin4fun 51M/47F

6/4/2006 1:45 pm

I can not even imagine how this must make you feel. I have one child and it would tear my heart out to not have him with me Is there the possibility that he could fly back sometimes to see you? I know it's not the same, but it may help a little.

free2chose2 67F

8/15/2006 7:33 am

Share custody as much as possible-you June,July,August and Sept with him visiting at least once during other months and you visiting him once also,just an idea.

Don't worry, be Happy

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