rm_YepIGotIt 45F
124 posts
9/28/2005 8:59 am

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Why is it that when you find someone you are fascinated with they live so damned far away??

It's quite odd how my profile doesn't include any photographs, I don't describe how other people view me (personality, looks, character, etc.), there is no real insight as to who I am, what I want, or what I need to pull someone in to want to know me...BUT! I get many e-mail messages about how my words are wonderful, my profile is great, etc. I've perused the world of AdultFriendFinder and there are many more profiles on here that are far more attention grabbing than mine but yet I have been found fascinating with my simplicity. I like it but it's still odd.

I wonder...

Contrary to what many men believe even the most raunchy of women don't want you to send them a message like the following the first time around...

"read your profile. wanna fuck?"

Very direct but the wrong approach. I can't speak for every woman but generally the guy that sends that message wouldn't be (and probably isn't) very appealing and there's usually no picture attached so you can see what you'd be fucking if you were to entertain the thought of responding. Never have understood that one.

Alright...enough rambling.

rm_ChivasRegal 58M
69 posts
9/28/2005 9:51 am

I feel you on this. I get winks or msgs from women 2000 miles away. I'm not going there and you not coming here, but the thought is nice. Read my profile, I think its direct, but not raunchy..well, I hope not anyway..LOL

Beamer665 54M

10/21/2005 10:23 am

I stopped posting my picture as well. I really enjoy finding out about a person here by what they have to say. As I get older, I am less about the so-called physical beauty and more about the real beauty within. I find a person that is nice and caring to be very attractive to me. All I ask is that they are clean, and take care of themselves. So, I think everyone should take the time and get to know people. If you don't, you take a chance on not getting to know a very fine person, and really missing out. My turn to ramble.

rm_Funguy82000 71M

11/7/2005 2:40 pm

I get in the same thing, being to far away. They seam to be very nice people just to far away.

Will you check my profile and let me know from a ladies perspective.

Thank you,

Beamer665 54M

1/24/2007 8:26 am

Still love to meet you! You really are a beautiful person to me. How about lunch and just some good conversation? Bob, not too far away to meet.

mmekanuofmfan2 46M

4/18/2007 7:17 am

I don't need your picture to be honest after reading all of this stuff about you I have to admit I think your pretty cool and you really have a pulse on whats going on on this site....

rm_hermanator00 49M

8/26/2007 6:50 pm

Not to sound like the typical 'carbon copy' of everyones sentiments here, but I can tell you where I come from.

A womans mind is as, if not more, important than her looks. Not that I am looking for a LTR at this time, but you never know who you are going to connect with on a deeper level. If one is not open to exploring the entire being then just be up front about it. I for one have learned that the best sexual encounters (none from here yet, just signed up) are with those you find that certain chemistry with. That mysterious connection that cannot be explained.

Your writings give insight to who you are as a person, and to at least some of us dogs out here that is very important. I would like to email/talk to you on the phone some time and see if there is anything there.


Ps... Keep rambling!

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