Just been thinking.....  

rm_YGB_fran 34F
1275 posts
8/2/2006 5:23 pm

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8/20/2006 3:12 pm

Just been thinking.....

I was reading a post in another blog and I found it interesting, actually I found it thought provoking or at least the idea of it because it was relevant to how people feel day to day. MOfunNOWWOWFill er up

It was about needing a refill. Not a drink, or gas or even M&M's but a refill of life in general. I spent some time thinking about my own life and where I am now and see where I truely needed a refill. Those periods where life wasn't great and it seemed all I did was give and give, it was draining the life from me to the point I had no desire to go out and experience things. I just wanted to sleep but I wasn't physically tired, physically I was in great shape but spiritually I was not.

What I want to know is who else has felt this way and how did you get your refill?

Yes I know a little serious for me, where is the joke? It was a good post that made me think.

*drum roll please* and that's hard to do! lol

YGB_fran muuaah muuaah

smackyman 47M
3849 posts
8/14/2006 12:43 am

For me it comes from a variety of places - a week camping, a night out with the boys, or maybe even just a good nap with the dog...

an M and M blizzard never hurts either...

kidnoshlicker 56M
1 post
8/9/2006 4:42 pm

empty mmmmmmmmmmmmm, need a rest no, need a filler no, need your life to have a meaningful reason yes. i,m no saint, may have tried to be, but far from it. but i do know for myself that any refreshing i need comes from above,strength,wisdom,protection of every day troubles,guidence,the spiritual sense that someone really does love me even though i,m not perfect.many years i lived in a fuck you world, until one day i realized that everything i had ment nothing and i felt empty. i picked up a bible ,why i didn,t know but yet i started reading it.the more i read,the more i asked god to show me what does all this mean and as time went on he revelled to me what it ment and how to use it in my daily life.today i can say i no longer feel empty even though my wife died and i have no kids.

rm_sucker4girls 61M

8/6/2006 2:35 pm

A refill? lemme see, I exercise, (today 2 hours of soccer), relax listening to jazz or classical music or just meditating, eat sensibly, read (currenty, 'mind'), have my daily dose of humour, yet, something's missing.

Yeah, I do need a refill too.

rm_solitoode 51M

8/6/2006 10:22 am

My best friend always fills my heart with joy. He happens to be a cat. He truly defines the term "unconditional love". I am so blessed to have him in my life.

tadpudgy 57M

8/5/2006 6:07 pm

Bookstores and iced mocha frappucinos (venti). i have been ballroom dancing for about seven years, and after every lesson/group class or social get together at the studio, i strangely feel full. P.S.***I know ur no ball-breaker...just a fun ref to the "kicks in the jewels* post. Thanks for being my Wicked Witch! I enjoyed Betty's tale so much, because i love writing stories and poems, and i do have a hint of a sense of humor! HUG=GASMS!

rm_YGB_fran replies on 8/6/2006 10:09 am:
I like her story too, it's a lot of fun.

Ballroom dancing? I love dancing too, it just resets the switch and your problems go away.

longhairman0013 47M
110 posts
8/3/2006 6:46 pm

listening to music, riding bikes (with and without motors) or just walking out into the woods and listening to the planet breath.

maxdog123 35M
2 posts
8/3/2006 8:55 am

I always saw it as this cycle that needs to occur in order to change. Highs aren't highs without lows your lack of inner spirit is probably already "filling" on its own it just takes awhile. becuase u are aware of this gap you will also realize the things that fill it in. Have you tired getting drunk and having sex with somone you met off the internet muhahha!

rm_seadog5328 31M
1 post
8/3/2006 5:49 am

I make a point of going out and getting some me time when I feel that way! Nothing special get a hold of a special friend that just wants to have some fun and go somewhere stupid in my case Niagara Falls and fust have fun , no sex , no strings just fun , play games or go on the jet boat or the casino! whatever I feel like I do and it just re-charges the inner kid and I feeel ready again to face whatever



8/2/2006 6:04 pm

Laughter...dancing...cookies wth M&M's. I have been feeling drained as I figured most of us do and dammit....I decided it is my choice not to be! {=} Glad you liked the post!

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

rm_YGB_fran replies on 8/2/2006 7:42 pm:
I really did and it is about making a choice. You're 100% right.

Djeeper1987 48M

8/2/2006 5:52 pm

I am still looking for my refill. It takes others a while to find it.

Carpe Diem

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