Question to the gentlemen here in this site........  

rm_WickedFemale 64F
1163 posts
3/11/2005 4:48 pm

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Question to the gentlemen here in this site........

In the past three months, I have ran into a few men that were over 53 that could not get it up, no matter what!<And believe me, there was a lot of what-ing!>
What can be the cause and suggestions to a way that can help?


nestowl 62M

3/11/2005 7:31 pm

Unfortunately, it is either a problem with his body or a problem in his mind. I don't mean that in an ugly way. The main point is that it is ultimately his problem and other than being courteous, and understanding about it there is probably little that you can do. He should consult a medical doctor to determine if there is a physical problem. It could be medication, stress, or any number of other things. On second thought, you could stress and reinforce the idea that there is nothing wrong with discussing this matter with a doctor. After all, the alternative is to continue to disappoint both himself and his partner. At least you are concerned. Good luck.


hrnymwm44 60M

3/11/2005 7:46 pm

Unless you have been living in a cave, its called RD or erectile disfunction. There are both physical and mental causes for this condition. I am no medical Dr., but lots of help is available in the form of Viagra or Cailis and other ED drugs.

Blood flow to the penis is actually caused by relaxation in the groin area causing increased blood flow to the storage area's in the penis. Some things like High Blood Pressure could cause this condition to fail.

They need to visit with their Dr. and get help.


mygmyg 60M

3/12/2005 1:15 pm

WickedFemale, nestowl is on track with the problem being both physical and mental. I sustained a back injury almost 7 yrs ago, and through the rehab of 2 surgeries on the lower back since I have come to realize that a lack of flexibility and strength in this area severelyaffects the strength and intensity of my erections.
Doctors and therapists stress that you must maintain a regular flex/strength routine for the area and fail to link it to our ability to perform or even raise the old pole.
All of us, men and women will develop degenerative back disease as we age, different severity for each individual, but it is an eventuallity. My thought is that by doing area specific stretching our ability to achieve and maintain that intense rock hard erection will be increased with muscle contraction/release exercises.
I know that when I do these exercises I feel like the mythical stud I was before the injury, if not a younger 30 something self.
Doing these exercises or any exercises will also help relieve the stress for male/female alike. The exercises are not strnuous, take about 20 to 25 minutes , and I think will show some improvement in performance very quickly, and will revive that explosive orgasmic feeling of coming like a gusher instead of the lapping wave of release that I experience when I discontinue the exercises.
If any males or females that have trouble finding info on the web, you're more than welcome to contact me here, will forward what I have been instructed to do, of course that disclaimer.... that you should see a medical prof. before...
Hope this is of some help.


rm_WickedFemale 64F
401 posts
3/12/2005 6:57 pm

Thank you for the information and your time in writing on this blog. Aw yes, mygmyg I know the exercises you speak of well and do them. <OK the secret is out, I am not a virgin, just tight ~smiles~> Do not live in a cave hrny but some just will not speak of their problem or deal with it. This allows some to read that will not say this is their problem as I have asked here.
And to the one that told me that he did not have that problem, hmmmmmmm I KNOW!!!!!! ~winks~


Midnightcruzer 65M
2 posts
3/13/2005 12:31 pm

Scary thought...since I'm almost that age. I have to admit, did happen to me once I was about 23-in the Navy-last day in port-cheating on my girlfriend with her roommate. No matter what we tried...nuttin' honey. Scared me sober. Hasn't happened since. Maybe it was the stress of cheating-last time in port (Philipines)...guess it could be anything. Best place to start would probably be w/a doctor (if they are worried-I sure would be)..they say its normal though. But I know I come from a long line of horney men...my grandfathers, my father...now me !!


carmel1950 70M

3/15/2005 7:01 pm

I am 57 and Wicked , it came and does come up and will come up on command.

love longer and better. Live long and better.

It is up to partners. I have complimented by
Woodstock females in it performance.Will


keithcancook 61M
18125 posts
4/22/2005 5:29 pm

Lord spare me from that fate. I am still in my forties, but time stands still for no man.


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