Guys who talk a good talk but when it comes to doing something, they get cold feet.  

rm_Torsch2 70M
115 posts
3/11/2006 5:44 am

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Guys who talk a good talk but when it comes to doing something, they get cold feet.

I have to admit, I've been contacted by quite a few guys on AdultFriendFinder. The problem is that most of them who contact, get cold feet and you never meet them. I was surprised to say the least, by the number of married guys and divorced guys who gave their profiles as Straight or Prefer not to say. They all say how they are craving to suck a cock or get fucked, and how that's all they think about. They are hot to trot.
But something that I've found is that a lot of them contact you, mail back and forth, and get all worked up about a meeting and then, when it comes time to put up or shut up, they suddenly stop mailing.
Now, I'm not agressive, if anything I want someone who is new to man/man sex to take the lead so they feel comfortable about anything that goes on, but I don't understand how some can get so excited about meeting and then...poof, just blow it off and you never hear from them again. It seems that there are lots of Posers out there.
Anyone else have that same experience?

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
9753 posts
3/11/2006 6:09 am

Sounds familiar.

Purry {=}


Chrisito2006 32M
1 post
3/11/2006 6:34 am

jajaja the problem would be you, there is nothing to do with such a small dick

rm_primosolada 67M
20 posts
3/11/2006 6:59 am

It's not just men, I have been through the same dance with women many times. Mostly, they don't know what they want, it just isn't me. I presume they prefer the comfort and security of their own dreams.

libgemOH 57M/53F

3/11/2006 7:15 am

Oh hell yes and you are left there, stood up, nothing but BOB to keep you company!! -B

meerkittykat 43F

3/11/2006 7:43 am

Happens a lot. Especially if you're looking for someone "new" to gay sex. It's really easy to chat and fantasize, but a whole other thing to follow through. I wouldn't call them "posers," just scared and nervous. If your looking for immediate sex, you're better off going with someone who's got more experience.


sassybelle21 33F  
13313 posts
3/11/2006 8:20 am

I think a lot of us who are serious about meeting have encountered that one time or another. I've learned to brush things off and not care since it's just fun but I will never give them a second chance for sure

rm_flirtsforu 48F
80 posts
3/11/2006 9:11 am

I must admit to being one that stood up a date. I was horrible to him after he was so nice and so much a gentleman. You are right, I didn't know what I wanted (and still don't some days) and found so many excuses to not walk out that door. To his credit, he sent me an email that night ... "sorry I missed you, I hope everything is okay .. if you need to talk, I'll be here". And he was there when I needed him. I guess that taught me not to judge others as I am glad to not have been judged ... people are real and feelings run deep. Not all of us are normal stable people --- lol ---

rm_Torsch2 70M
4 posts
3/12/2006 6:15 am

Christito 2006. It's pretty easy to make smart comments when you hide your cock in your undies. If you're hung so great, let's see it. Otherwise if you can't say something constructive, shut the fuck up!

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