In the beginning...  

rm_TigerflyJB 42F
6 posts
7/13/2006 7:06 pm

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In the beginning...


To answer amoldenough's question from my last post - I have to go back to "the beginning".

I have had 3 major relationships in my life:

1st - horrible sex, hated it and life in general

2nd - much better - I learned alot and began to love sex to the point of obsession at one point

3rd - Tingly Sex

There have been other relationships and NSA/ONS's along the way.

After #2 - I really thought I had it going on! I loved sex, loved pleasing my partner and was pretty open to tryin about anything new.

Then I met #3... When I met him I was instantly terrified. There was something about him that made me know that he could make me do/say things that I wouldn't do under normal circumstances. Almost instantly I was completely under his spell. As scary as that was it was exciting! His committment to me was to take me to new levels of sexual pleasure - both with a partner and on my own. His general belief is that you should always know how to please yourself.

Our lessons started gently, we were long distance so it was a little bit of phone sex, some cyber sex but mostly phone. At first it was soft - to get me lured into comfort. Then the real lessons started.

The lessons were about self discovery more than anything else. I was first introduced to the different types of female orgasm: Clitoral, vaginal, blended and squirting (or female ejaculation).

I got the first 3 down - understood the difference and then was able to bring myself to each of those 3 with differnt types of stimuli.

The 4 - female ejacultion - seemed just... wrong to me. I however had no option but to learn about it and report back to him about what I had learned...

Once I had done this - I was told to try it and not stop until I did it. It took a while (a few solid hours) to do it - but I was quite pleasantly suprised with the sensation. So I reported back that FE was cool - I liked it...

Over the next several months - I was told that I couldn't have a clitoral or vaginal orgasm without first squirting. I found this to be unbelievably annoying - but did it anyhow - hoping that he knew what he was on about. As I got better at doing it - I enjoyed it more and more - it became less work and more enjoyable.

After a few months - I was told that I could have whatever kind of orgasm I wanted - I was like whoohoo! And off I went to make it happen "old skool" style!

I did - brought myself to a blended clitoral and vaginal orgasm. And I was left feeling like I didn't "fully cum" like a let down of sorts. I immediately started to bring myself to the point of ejaculation - and finally felt like I had cum.

More to come - tired tonight!


abitcrazy4sex 46M
1335 posts
7/13/2006 7:34 pm

cant wait to hear the rest .. its all up in the head that makes it work than anything else.if you let yourself go and not worry about things and feel determined to have those "earth shattering orgasms" you may have them everytime with a comfortable partner.great post BTW


rm_TigerflyJB 42F
1 post
7/14/2006 8:19 pm

I actually disagree - it isn't about letting yourself go or even determination. Agreed - that you have to loose your inhibitions and be open minded. But having an earth shattering orgasm is about education. Knowing your body - how it works and what it is capable of. A great teacher helps - but self exploration and self education can bring you there as well...you haven't heard the rest of the story


MrOurSecret22 42M
1 post
7/15/2006 12:03 am

just to let you know. i do the best i can to last longer then the women i have sex with. nothing makes me feel better as a partner then to have an orgasm with the person i am having sex with. let me know if you want in.


abitcrazy4sex 46M
1335 posts
7/15/2006 3:56 pm

    Quoting rm_TigerflyJB:
    I actually disagree - it isn't about letting yourself go or even determination. Agreed - that you have to loose your inhibitions and be open minded. But having an earth shattering orgasm is about education. Knowing your body - how it works and what it is capable of. A great teacher helps - but self exploration and self education can bring you there as well...you haven't heard the rest of the story
sure but sometimes an "un educated about there bodies" individual will learn something about her body without ever knowing it was possible...just boom , earthquake then she knows she can do it and tries for it more often.you do have to know your body but even it suprises you sometimes


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