My First Blog Job...  

rm_SubMaleToy4u 53M
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4/20/2006 7:16 pm
My First Blog Job...

Welcome to my blog. My handle is SubMaleToy4U. And it's probably the saddest example of an acronym since the U.S.A. P.A.T.R.I.O.T. Act.

Yes, I am a sub, a submissive male. Technically, I am a switch ‒ someone who enjoys both the dominant and submissive roles. My I think I have a definitive preference for the submissive role. Besides, SwitchMaleToy4U seemed a bit much.

I'm not one of those full-time submissive. Nor do I consider myself in the "lifestyle." My sexual activities and appetite do not define who I am. And I find it quite amusing that those in the "lifestyle" look down upon those of is who are not, calling is McDoms or McSubs. Given that society as a whole often looks down on us, calling us sexual deviants and depraved perverts, it's amusing to think that I am being ostracized by fellow kinksters simply because I don't tow their party line. It's like getting kicked out of the revolution for being rebellious.

Anyway, I fancy myself a submissive. I enjoy submitting to dominant women. Though my preference is really for roleplaying, as I believe we are equal...except, of course, for those miscreants on the Religious Right. They don't believe in evolution because they never really evolved.

I've never done the whole 24/7 TPE thing. I'm more of a submissive than a slave, though who knows where a Domme/sub relationship might evolve to. For the right woman, I'd probably do things that would even shock myself. But, at least for now, I like leading a somewhat vanilla life in public. True, all my friends and colleagues know I'm a pervert...and surely suspect me of Class-A deviance...but I keep my sex life private. There's a time and place for a collar and a leash, and my guess is that time and place is not Shakespeare in the Park. Random example? Yes, but wouldn't the Delacorte Theatre in Central Park be an ideal place for a sex show?

On to the male part. I have a penis. A wonderful penis, even if I do say so myself. At 9 inches in length and 2 inches in diameter, it has become a bit of legend on its own. I am blessed to share the same shorts as it.

But I bring a lot more to the table than some hard, thick meat. I have a mind, too, ya know! I have a good sense of humor and can be quite charming. I look Italian, though I'm more of an American mutt. My hair has started going gray, but it's thick and curly...and I'm glad I still have it. I've got some facial hair, and I'm a rather hairy guy in general...except for downstairs, which I keep as trimmed as the brim of new recruit.

As for the toy thing, well, I guess that was my attempt to include my whole cuckold fantasy thing. I'd have to be in a relationship to be a cuckold, but I'm painfully single, so it remains just a fantasy. I'm very interested in exploring this fantasy, to date a lovely lady who wants to be ravaged by big black studs while I am forced to clean her deep creampie in utter humiliation.

For those of you unfamiliar with these terms, I offer the following definitions...

Cuckold - a man who accepts and encourages his lover's infidelity, being sexually excited by her actions and serving her in any way he can.

Cuckoldress - a woman who enjoys having sex with other men in addition to her own lover, and relishes her domination and promiscuousness as well as his submission and humiliation.

As for "4U," that references my desire to find a woman to serve. Ideally, I guess I'm looking for one of those "ethical slut" types, who love sex and are not ashamed to admit it. Which seems to go hand-in-hand with the notion of a dominant woman, who is not afraid of or intimidated by her sexuality or sexual desires.

My preferences are towards the petite and pretty. Most of the women I've dated over the years fall into those categories, so I'm hoping to find one who also happens to be a deliciously dirty pervert as well. And, while I've had a few offers along the way, I don't play for pay. I do this for pleasure, not profit. So, naturally, since I'm not willing to accept money for my sexual services, I certainly have no interest in giving anyone else money for theirs. With that said, if you are someone who does this for profit, a professional as they say, then I'm probably not the guy for you.

With that said, feel free to drop me a line.I can provide more pics upon request, but you have to do a little more than ask. Tell me a little about yourself ‒ who you are, what you look like, and what you are interested in. Once I'm convinced you aren't some picture collector wasting my time, I'll be more than happy to show you what's behind the proverbial green door.

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