A First Post.  

rm_StephanDM 46M
5 posts
7/8/2006 7:20 pm

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8/4/2006 4:18 pm

A First Post.

Not knowing if anybody will read this or not....I am going to take a huge risk. But for those of you who do happen to catch this,....please respond.

I am in my 30's, living/existing in a small town of Erie, PA. I am honest, open-minded, fun, and more importantly,....single. Right now....I tend to dread being single. Since being on some of these sites where one of the objectives is to meet other people for whatever reason whether it is sex, fun, friendship, relationship or anything....I find myself sending out messages to people and either not getting a reply, getting one of those "not interested" instant messages, or getting very few responses and not knowing what to make of it.

I'm tired of feeling left out of all the fun or feeling like as if everybody else is allowed to have fun and I'm not.

Basically.....I open a challenge to those who see this and my profile. Give me a sense of reason. A reason to basically continue not just on AdultFriendFinder or these meeting sites, but a reason to want to continue to try and give others a chance when I'm not really given one. A reason to want to go out and meet people when there are those who don't want to meet me. A reason to smile when I can't find a reason to.

Notfunanymore 106F
10289 posts
7/8/2006 8:07 pm

Welcome to Blogville!

Good luck in what you want off here man!

rm_gregador 58M

7/30/2006 5:57 am

These sites can be hell. If you're not one of those individuals that have knockout looks with an eye-catching photo, it's not going to be easy to get people to stop and read your profile.

One suggestion--and you might have already tried this--is to get really involved in the blogging, polling, and magazines here. People are here for different reasons and reading about other folks lives is a good draw. If you keep blogging and let people read about your life you'll get commments and then you can start conversations. Go read other's blogs and comment too. It's actually quite interesting.

Another thing--have another photo taken, one that is quirky or shows you doing something that you like.

Good luck man.

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