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9/10/2006 1:23 pm

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9/10/2006 4:52 pm


I've noticed lots of women say things in their profiles like, "NO MARRIED/ATTACHED MEN - if your wife/girlfriend doesn't want you, why would I?"

There are (at least) 2 problems with this statement:

1) This is based on the assumption that a married/attached man looking for a relationship CAN'T get any at home - in other words, HE wants it, but his wife/girlfriend won't give it to him. Perhaps SHE wants it...but HE doesn't! (At least, not from her.) You think that's impossible - well, I can tell you: I've been there.

2) The statement also makes a generalization that if any woman doesn't want a man, why would another woman? Well, that's just silly. Everyone has a different "type." What one woman doesn't like, another might love. It's sort of like the old saying, "One person's garbage is another's treasure."

If you don't want a married man because of the supposed hassle involved, fine. But at least be more logical in your reasoning.

Hydragenias 57F

9/10/2006 2:18 pm

My reasoning is this: I believe whatever goes around comes around and if the day ever happens that I fall in love and get married, I would not want my husband cheating on me, therefore I do not play with other womens' husbands/boyfriends.

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