First date blues...she was not all there...  

rm_Sloppyjoe812 59M
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7/3/2006 9:22 am

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First date blues...she was not all there...

I had a bad experience on a date a little while back. Yes, someone I met from AdultFriendFinder although their profile is now I don't feel bad in posting what happened.

We had corresponded several times and we seemed to have some things in common. She lived close by, so it was a natural progression of events to set up a meet. Let me also preface this by noting 2 things. First, I believed her when she told me she had no computer skills and found it difficult to download images. This was not the first woman who made that claim, although AdultFriendFinder makes it really easy to do. So, again, I believed her. Second, I'm a very tolerant kind of guy. I always try to go with the flow, and basically I'm just looking for friends, companions and lovers. I love women of all shapes and sizes...all races, religions and political views (Although I can only tolerate right winged republicans for brief periods of time). You get the picture...I adore women.

So when we scheduled a time to meet, I was there. It was at a public place in Philly, down by the river. It was a really hot and humid day. Very muggy. I was there first...and I'm always a little anxious when I meet someone for the first time. I waited...20 minutes...30 ...she called to say she would be a little late...40...finally an hour and a half later her car pulls in. By this time I was a little upset and had considered leaving, but she called me twice to let me know she was running late.

After all this, I thought she better be a wonderful woman...anyway she pulls in. Long dark hair, kind of obscured by the tint of the car glass. The door opens, and she steps out...and she....ready for this? She, was a he. Yep I said it...he. Dressed great in a business type dress,,,all made up and ready for clubbing. A guy.

So what do you do? It was so obviously a man...I thought I was going to be ill. Hey, everyone is entitled to any lifestyle they may choose. But don't tell me one thing and then be another. I spent about 10 minutes with him/her...I was visibly shaken. And then answered a cell phone call, (that never rang...told him/her it was on vibrate), and got the hell out of there as fast as I could.

What would you have done?

loadeddice05 45M

7/3/2006 10:01 am

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! Maybe he??? could have been your soulmate???

VCF1962 106F

7/3/2006 10:17 am

Someone I chatted with had the same experience. What do people think you aren't gonna notice ?

Perhaps it was his idea of a joke !

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Taking what you say and turning it into something naughty !!

rm_Sloppyjoe812 replies on 7/3/2006 12:11 pm:
Some joke! Can you imagine what someone who wasn't very tolerant may have done to this guy. He certainly had balls...(again no pun intended...okay maybe it was intended)...

rm_mainevern 52M
10197 posts
7/3/2006 11:21 am

Heh, nothing like a surprise .

(I think a TV/TS would have been better than some of the real women I've had on dates).

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rm_Sloppyjoe812 replies on 7/3/2006 12:12 pm:
We were on a crowded pier...and people were looking at us!! I wanted to crawl under a rock.

rm_mainevern 52M
10197 posts
7/4/2006 9:57 pm

This must have been one of those character building experiences .

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JuicyBBW1001 56F

7/7/2006 8:38 pm

OH MY I think I would have thrown up on it and then ran. Sorry that happened to you.


rm_JustsayhiBoo 51F

7/13/2006 2:02 pm

I have never met anyone without seeing a picture first. Yes people can send you a 20 yr old picture but not many do. I also would not wait an hour and a half for anyone, or 30 or 40 minutes for that matter. That being said, if I had gotten to the point of meeting this person I would have simply told him I didn't appreciate his disrespectfulness and would have left.

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