Who would have sex with a stranger?  

rm_Simplysexy65 51F
870 posts
6/26/2006 12:19 pm

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6/28/2006 1:42 am

Who would have sex with a stranger?

Who would have sex with a stranger?

Gender differences in receptivity to sexual offers should be a screamingly famous research report. Yet most people don't know about it. Or maybe they can't believe it exists. It exists. Trust me...And I might add, University of Hawaii is one of the schools I have attended....

Published in 1989 in the Journal of Psychology and Human Sexuality, this nine-page sizzler tells a SIMPLE tale. Five women and four men were sent, one at a time, on to a college campus. Each approached strangers of the opposite sex, and said: "I have been noticing you around campus. I find you to be very attractive." They then invited the strangers to have sex.

This experiment was performed twice, once in 1978, and again in 1982. The results were the same. As the report describes it: "The great majority of men were willing to have a sexual liaison with the women who approached them. Not one woman agreed to a sexual liaison."

The study was conceived and directed by two psychology professors, one from the University of Hawaii at Manoa, and the other from Florida State University.
Not terribly surprising. But fun indeed that there are serious studies.

I propose to all men on AdultFriendFinder a honeymoon period of at least 5 serious dates of expensive restaurants, gifts, cards with "little meaning", emails filled with poetic words of serendipity, and throw in a few baby pictures.........any more advice and I have to charge ya. Ha! Happy hunting!! From your native squaw on the warpath to desire....cheek bones meant for sucking D*ck!

buddhamike 107M
7006 posts
6/26/2006 1:39 pm

If your photo is genuine, you can certainly demand and receive the five serious dates with all of the extras. The average person can expect those things and the result will be that they will be alone a lot.

GuyWhoListens2u 57M
325 posts
6/26/2006 1:59 pm


So you are saying... women want to be treated like they are people?

Hmm... I will have to give that some thought.

goodatpoetry2 68M
16569 posts
6/26/2006 2:25 pm

Many women, on here especially, say that they are as horny as men. They want it all the time, etc. But that's not really true.
If I were to go up to these same women asking for sex, they'd have me arrested. They PRETEND they're like men. Or WANT to be. But they're not. Not at all.
There is SUCH a difference.

snakee2 53M

6/26/2006 5:24 pm

Are five dates really enough, or are they too many? One can not set a time frame to the moment of intimacy. And I do use that word as it is truly an intimate moment that two individuals choose to ultimately display the passion they have found for one another. I believe timing is of the utmost importance, but one need feel the passion and deepest desires for their partner before engaging in the carnal pleasures of the flesh.

spacetalker_del 42M

6/28/2006 12:55 am

I did some classes of psychology myself and I know that women are very frightened. In wildlife male simply female without any concern. That's the fear in woman. It is animalistic and it is based on millions of years of history. The act of might turn into a kind of pleasure after a time, depends on the skill of convincing by the . I do believe that the game in love between male and female human, like giving flowers, showing baby pictures and stuff is a necessary atavism in the psychology of mankind to set down the fear. Convincing that there is no reason for fear. On the other hand giving birth seems to be causing pain. So there is a double fear, one is in the strength of male, the other is in that pain. By testing the male, female will have to discover how gentle a man can be to do what woman feels as absolutely natural and necessary, since she is driven from within.

Maybe this is the reason why I have some trouble in contacting girls on AdultFriendFinder. I have tried it with 1000 already and I have scored only with one. She believes that I could be smooth enough to turn her fear into confidence. So I am going to meet her now. She is some kind of a female superhero, so she is more adventurous than others, I reckon.
I have been contacted only by 5 woman on reverse and none of them kept contact for more than 5 Emails.

Could it be that fear is typical for woman, while courage is typical for man?

Your advice is surely priceless, but I do not want to pay you with money. So let's share kisses and do that Nike thing once. Ever seen the Nike statue? No? Than let me show you. It is the goddess of war and it is standing in my craddle the city of Warsaw.

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