If you truly care  

rm_Simplysexy65 51F
870 posts
7/8/2006 4:51 pm

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7/10/2006 12:55 am

If you truly care

Tell her how you admire her..... always tell her you love her at all times..... when she's upset hold her tight..... pick her over all the other girls you hang out with..... play with her hair..... pick her up... tickle her and wrestle with her..... just talk to her.... tell her jokes.... bring her flowers just because... hold her hand and run.... just hold her hand.... throw pebbles at her window at night.....let her fall asleep in your arms..... sing to her no matter how awful you sound..... .get her mad at you.... then kiss her..... give her piggy back rides..... push her on swings.... tell her she looks beautiful.... when she's sad..... stay on the phone with her even though she's not saying anything..... look into her eyes and smile.... kiss her on the forehead.... slow dance with her even if there is no music..... Kiss her in the rain...... AND WHEN YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH HER....

But never call her mean names, make threats, throw things at her, push her or pull her hair, never smash her head in a wall and never throw her on a pool table and beat her with the pool stick.... For all she did was ask questions.....

Never say I love u if it isn't really there, never talk about feelings if you really don't care, never hold my hand if you're gonna break my heart, never say u are gonnna if u don't plan to start. Never look into my eyes if all u do is lie, never say hello if u really mean goodbye. If u really mean forever then please say you'll try....never say forever...because forever makes me cry.....

A Good Lesson

A young boy was getting angry all the time, and it was causing alot of pain in his and other's lives. One day his father witnessed this anger that his son was expressing.
He pulled his son aside, and took him out to the back yard.
He handed the boy a hammer, and a box of nails.
He told his son that every time he gets angry, he is to come out to the back yard, and drive a nail into the backyard fence..
And that for every day that he went without getting angry, he could come out here, and remove a nail..
Well, at first, the young boy was pounding alot of nails, sometimes many in the course of one day..
But gradually, he learned to control his temper and was able to pull a nail out of the fence one evening before he went to bed.
Well, that inspired him to work a little harder at it..
The boy tried very hard to control his temper, and soon he found that he was pulling more nails than he was pounding..
After a few months, when he was pulling the last nail from the fence, his father came to him and said.
"Son I am very proud of you.. You have learned to control your anger very well...
But the point to all this is look at my fence...
Sure, you pulled out all of the nails, but my fence is now full of holes..
So you see, that every time you get angry, and lose your temper...
Even if you take it back later on..
It still leaves a scar..
A scar that cannot be removed...
Sure, over time the scar may become less noticeable, but it's still there..."

reverend21 50M
1913 posts
7/8/2006 4:56 pm

Yes, but she has to love or atleast like you before you can share those feelings

rm_eyecandy4me 51F

7/8/2006 5:20 pm

Does she??? Why can you not share those feelings if you feel them..
Take a risk that all she needed was to hear them, to feel them from you...
Cahnces are you won't feel those feelings for someone who dosn't return them...

Apsolutely well written...Enjoyed every word..

expatbrit49 64M

7/8/2006 5:31 pm

I do those things for her all the time

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

rm_passion7523 52M
2931 posts
7/8/2006 6:00 pm

a long time a go i read something , i think it was one of Kahlil Gibrans sayings though im not sure and i cant remember how it goes, my version,

the moving pen writes
and once written
no passing of time
nor how much sand
blows in the desert
will ever erase it

It made me think at the time how important our actions are for like the fence it will always have scars no matter the passage of time

One of his writings i especially like is

"that whenever i come to the fountain to drink
i find the living water itself thirsty
and it drinks me while i drink it. peace and harmony passion

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
7/8/2006 6:02 pm

I think you relayed some good things...

canuhandle1968 50F

7/8/2006 6:17 pm

KUDOS to you for writing this. Girls get the "bag of goodies" in grade school with info about our periods and our hormonal changes; puberty. Boys should get this imprinted on a postcard!! It's frustrating when you think you know how he feels but you're not quite sure.... Pat yourself on the back! This is awesome!

somethingelse40 76M
14676 posts
7/9/2006 11:06 am

It’s interesting to note that many distinguished people have scars very similar to yours and mine.

rm_FunCumGuy69 49M
14 posts
7/9/2006 12:37 pm

How i wish i could take back some of the things i've said in anger....to the one i loved

rm_Simplysexy65 replies on 7/10/2006 1:23 am:
It was a lot more than anger! And I am hurt beyond words anymore. Out of breath

guylooking42469 49M
2 posts
7/10/2006 12:37 am

So very true, beautiful in fact. Unfortunately, these lessons are learned too late and the one that is truly meant for us is already gone.

waterdragon67 65M

7/15/2006 6:30 am

I hope you don't mind i'm copying most of what you have written to reflect over and share with my lady.

And i've found that if you are really connected with each other you know how you she is feeling and she knows how you are feeling --- it is beyond words --- it is a new experience and it is something very very special

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