How I found AFF  

rm_SexyCat329 52M/43F
3 posts
3/22/2005 2:45 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

How I found AFF

Well I don't even remember what I was looking for on the web, but of course pop-ups and wrongly typed searches, and I came across this page. Now before I married my second husband, I had my first three way guy and 2 girls. After we married they ask my husband to borrow me "giggle" god that sounds so funny. And he did. But I own him one as well. But as life can be crazy and one thing leads to another. I have yet to pay up on my end. Not meaning to take so long. But we moved and I was now in a place where I didn't know anyone and how people behaved for the most part. So I told my hubby, to check out the site, as I had saved it on his fav list. And he looked around and told me to join up. We got really lucky, we had not been on 2 days and we got first message and a invite to a party. I talked to him about and so we went. It was his first time and the party was great but not good for us, he was really nervous and I had womanly troubles. But we did have fun. And meet some of the nicest people and we hope to get together again really soon.

(Neil M)

3/22/2005 8:16 am

That's the way to approach it Cat! Keep the doors open and a positive attitude. Just because the timing was off doesn't mean that the people you meet and the contacts you make won't pay off later down the road. Sometimes patience is the thing to have

rm_EroticOhio 60M/55F
20 posts
3/22/2005 6:34 pm

Most people need to get used to the swinging lifestyle slowly, and being nervous for the first few meetings is normal. All of the swinger's parties we host are no-pressure events where you can just hang out and be yourself. In fantasy it seems fun to just meet for sex, but in reality most people need to warm up and get to know people first, especially when you are new to swinging. Eventually you will probably become more comfortable playing with strangers.


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