Breaking an old post sex habit...  

rm_SarahKM3 36F
55 posts
7/28/2006 3:34 pm

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8/19/2006 1:37 am

Breaking an old post sex habit...

OK, my longest relationship was about 3 years and we weren't together the entire time. He was the first guy I had sex with and I got kinda frustrated early on that after sex he would fall asleep.

When I first started having sex after it was over I would have like a post sex high and I would have so much energy. I was ready to do it again and I had more energy than I had before we started.

Then after being with him a few months and him getting frustrated that I was frustrated and couldn't fall asleep I started really trying to go to sleep post sex.

Now if it's really great amazing sex and I'm fully pleased I still fall asleep! It's been 6 years and I still fall asleep after really good sex. I don't want to fall asleep anymore, plus sometimes it puts the guy I've just had a date with in an uncomfortable situation.

Anyone got any tips? I really could use anything you got. Even how to warn guys of this bad habit without breaking the mood and spooking him.

Please, anything will help. Gracias!


CB_2 52F

7/28/2006 4:13 pm

Why should it spook him? All you have to do is point out that you are like a bloke in this respect, and will fall asleep afterwards if the sex has been really good.

The only thing that will spook him is when you don't fall asleep, because then he'll lie there worrying that the sex wasn't good enough.

Hey, enjoy fucking with their heads - they do it to us often enough. LOL.

Blogito ergo sum.


ShaneLiveLife 51M

7/28/2006 4:18 pm

    Quoting CB_2:
    Why should it spook him? All you have to do is point out that you are like a bloke in this respect, and will fall asleep afterwards if the sex has been really good.

    The only thing that will spook him is when you don't fall asleep, because then he'll lie there worrying that the sex wasn't good enough.

    Hey, enjoy fucking with their heads - they do it to us often enough. LOL.
True - just make sure you don't fall asleep for too long ....

Live with passion !


rbatxluvr 47M

8/1/2006 12:43 pm

Hi Sarah,

I would love to get to know you, I too have a huge sex drive and I am sure I can keep you awake for a long time, If you are interested contact me, we can work on sleepless nights together..


rm_SarahKM3 36F
13 posts
8/19/2006 1:37 am

I haven't really mentioned it to guys before because I don't want them to think that it wasn't that good for me if I don't fall asleep. You know sometimes the spark just isn't there.

And why is it that the guys I meet off of here and I have a great time with and make me fall asleep never wanna meet up again. But the ones that don't rock my world keep calling. Why do you think that is?


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