As the Drama Turns  

rm_SammiSaysTo 44F
1085 posts
7/6/2006 12:33 am

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7/7/2006 11:22 am

As the Drama Turns

I have been pondering a situation for the last few hours, and just can’t go to bed until I get it out of my system. I will not be naming names of the people involved, you know who you are..and I wouldn’t do that. I am a bigger person than that. I even debated writing this blog. BUT I just couldn’t let it lie. After writing this blog, I am hoping the situation will die down. Ok, without a further ado…..This is the deal:

A few days ago, a friend I met through AdultFriendFinder told me about a situation she found herself in. We meet through a great AdultFriendFinder group, the Omaha Meet N Greet Group. This is a very active group and we have met and talked at several activities over the last month or so. So, she is telling me that she was part of another group on AdultFriendFinder, but that no one ever seemed to want to meet face to face. She even went as far as trying to get people to use the chat room. The group wasn’t very active and it was hard to get anything going. Here is the problem. Being she had been part of many successful meet n greets through our other group, she thought she would try and get the other group to get together as well to just meet. No expectations, no orgy scene. Just meet face to face and hang out and have fun. Well evidently the moderator of this particular group did not like the fact that my friend had mentioned this other group she was in. The moderator then took it upon herself to delete the post on the group thread and proceed to plagiarize what my friend had said regarding getting together. I just couldn’t believe it. Who has the right to filter and delete what is said? I can understand if she had been rude or insulting, but this friend is far from that and I couldn’t even imagine her saying a bad word about anyone. So being the passionate person I am about causes I believe in, I had to join the group and weigh in on the issue.

I do have to give this particular moderator credit (only in the beginning), because she left my post up and answered it personally. Boy did I hit a nerve or two. First, as a moderator, I personally feel you are there to help move things along, add a comment or two, maybe welcome the newbies to the group. BUT, this moderator came out and said that this was HER group and that people needed to ask her permission to cross-promote events. I would quote her directly, however, today she banned me from the group, so I don’t have access to her comments. (damn, I knew I should have printed out the page!) She even went as far as suggesting since we live so close to each other, that we meet to discuss our differences. Yeah, I know what that means. What’s the point? It is hard to debate an issue with someone who will comeback with, “It’s my group, I can do what I want, na na na na”.

I have also just found out tonight that she banned the friend who just tried to get this group active. I am waiting to hear if she bans a few other females who wanted to move the group from just pictures on a page to an interactive group.

I just want to set the record straight, because I know YOU will be reading this (and you know who you are)…I have no beef with you, my only issue is how you treat people here and in your group. Your shit don’t stink any less than mine, and you still put your pants on one leg at a time. It is all about respecting others and their opinions. Please, feel free to leave a comment here, I won’t delete it. I believe in the first amendment and that everyone is entitled to their opinion…just try to back it up with some facts, that’s all I ask.

Wow..I feel so much better! I can’t wait to climp into my soft, warm bed and sleep soundly. I did want to also mention, if anyone who is reading this, and is part of the above mentioned group…..stay tuned….I feel a new group forming, and this one won’t be stuck in cyberspace!

Nite all! I am off to do some drooling on my soft pillow.

If you can't laugh, what's the fucking point!

countryheart_71 46F
8081 posts
7/6/2006 11:41 am

Very well put Sammi!!!!!


funintheday2006 57M
9659 posts
7/7/2006 12:10 am

There are confused people aout there aren' ther? Sad, this is supposed to be a FRIEND site.

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