Sure I'll let you eat my pussy--but only if we really connect  

rm_Rockee1027 49M
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6/7/2005 8:25 pm

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Sure I'll let you eat my pussy--but only if we really connect


Been thinking about what it is we are all here to do and it occurs to me how silly some of the boundaries people set up are. I think maybe it's all a matter of trust. In America it seems rude to say, "I don't trust you." But it's okay to say, "Let's chat some more before we take the next step." And hopefully the conversation will bring about the one or two pieces of information that will seal the deal. When I was younger, I always had a 2 a.m. rule. If you were with a girl after 2, it meant she wanted to sleep with you. Thanks to everyone's increasingly busy lives, we've replaced time with information. And as long as the correct information is exchanged, we then reach a level of "trust".

So many of us have fantasies of sex with strangers. STD's aside, I think it's the letting go of the trust barriers we set up that is so exciting. It's like riding a bike with no hands when you are young. There is a woman I have been in contact with who has been wonderfully shy. She has a fantasy of sex with a stranger. I'd love to fulfill that fantasy for her, but first we'd have to not be strangers. Wouldn't it be great to turn a switch and suddenly be like a puppy and meet someone for the first time every day? Then we could fulfill our stranger fantasies with people we trust.

The uglier flip side of stranger sex is when strangers like in the Billy Joel Song have sex. You think you know someone, then they suddenly reveal a part of themselves you've never seen (and obviously don't like)and you wonder what the fuck were you ever thinking in the first place getting near this person. I guess this is where time comes into play. 2a.m. came and went. What you thought was the info to seal the deal was said.Only it's been 10 years and finally the info that would have sent you packing day one comes flying out. And you wondered how you ever trusted this person. Or maybe you just long to be a puppy.

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