Answer to you crazy Assed Feminists  

rm_Rico0825 56M
319 posts
5/18/2006 8:17 pm

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Answer to you crazy Assed Feminists

Now, I received two very nasty emails from feminists on my post for my Mother Days Tribute. Of which for me was very personal and emotional.

In that post I called the women who aborted my child a whore. And I will give you your due, that may have been a bad choice of words. In fact I was just as much a whore as she. I mean it does take two.

But the difference was, as fucked as I was at the time, I was willing to accept my responsibility.

I offered to take on a night job in order to give this girl a place to live. I offered that we would get married, if not just for a year or so so she could enjoy the health benefits I had. I told her once the baby was born, she had complete control. She could say goodbye to us both, with no strings attached. Or she could take custody and I'd pay more than my fair share. All I wanted was the child 3 days out of seven and a Mom and Dad that could be civil and loving.

Now at this time, I was a raving jackass. I could have took, I'm not bringing a child into this world to have a Dad like you. And I swore to this girl, this was the change I have been waiting for, and I would be a different man. Well, actually, I would become a man for once in my life. And even with the abortion out of my control these changes happened.

Well. I put this girl into an apartment for two months. Signed a six month lease. Then one day her friend came to visit. Told me I was being screwed. She had already had the abortion, and was playing me for the fool

When I asked why she didn't have the baby, she said she had already paid for a cruise, and she would be damned if she would be bulging out with a child during it.

So you feminist asses, that is where I come from. I mean this girl is the women that put the U- in CNT. Bottom line.

And what made it worse was about a year and half later I met her in a deli, toting along a new born child. No cruise planned it seemed. Never in my life was so close to punching a women, as she smiled and asked how life was going for me.

If my parents didn't do a good job of teaching me humility, she would have been knocked out, and I'd be sitting in jail being everything I hate about men.

So when you young women find yourself in that situation. If there is a man that does care, give credence to his feelings.

The fact is it is not your body being mutilated. It is yet an unborn human being. And know matter how much the father may seem unstable or irresposible, it just may be the thing that sets him straight. And I ain't no fool, There are many faggots in this world. But I guarantee the love that child gives you day to day, is far precious than living with the guilt that comes along with denying your child life. No matter what the circumstance.

Just as the song I made my Song OfThe Week- Let Your soul Be Your Pilot.

sexyariesgirl 59F

5/18/2006 9:03 pm

Thinking of you sweetie.

Power To FOK

rm_Rico0825 replies on 5/19/2006 10:21 am:
As I am of you sexyareiesgirl!!!

ExplicitWoman 47F
10 posts
5/18/2006 9:24 pm

I'm going to say something that I've never really shared with anyone else on this subject primarily because of the two radical opposite ends on the debate about abortion are so painfully vocal. When I was a child, maybe about seven or so, the women's rights movement was in full thrush. And I remember seeing something on television that had greatly upset me and had me running to my mother asking why would someone kill a baby. I don't quite remember what it was she said as a reply, but I remember years later being shocked that after my sister and only sibling (eight years my junior) when my mother told me she had had an abortion. Out of seven pregnancies, my mother only gave birth to two children. The others were still-births, one so close to term as that my mother had already named her, and sadly due to complications and lack of medical knowledge at the time, it was a pregnancy that nearly killed her. My sister's birth was considered something just shy of a miracle, needless to say, but a few months later my mother found she was pregnant again, and it was something for the doctor to say that if she carried through, this pregnancy would kill her. I don't know what kind of discussion my parents went through, I don't even have any recollection of my mother being gone for any period of time. I know that my father was irrisponsable and a "manly-man" type of person who seemed to consider women as nothing more than pussy on two feet. Mind you, that point of view comes from how I saw him as a child when he was sexually abusing me. Yes, I don't know that the man knew what a condom was, and vasiline was his choice of lubricants. My mother, though a woman with a degree, wanted to make him happy. Sadly, in the end, I did not receive another sibling, but I did get to keep my mother, which for a child caught up in the ugliness of that time, was the greatest thing I could have, she's been a good influence in my life.

I understand what you have written, and I commend you for being the kind of man who would be willing to step up and take responsability for a young life that would be dependant upon you for years to come. I can also understand your view of this girl, not having a child because she's going on a cruise is obscene... she could have put the child up for adoption, there are certainly other parents who could have raised him or her.

I don't know if I'm a feminist ass. What I do know is that with the way I am, I don't think I could ever abort a pregnancy, but I don't know, I've never been in the situation.

Sadly, I wish our culture could take a step back from things. That people would be more responsable about having sex, after all, it's there so we can reproduce. That Britanny Spears would not make CNN for not putting her car seat into her convertable correctly, nor that infants were touted in the fashion magazines as the next new fad. Independance is great, but when things go to hell in a handbasket, it's the family that's important, because they're the ones who put up with one's foibles and faults.

Anyhow, I can see how this was such a blow to you. This was your child. I remember once with my second husband I thought that I was possibly pregnant (actually it was just a hell of a lot of stress), but even as I started to contemplate being a mother, he started making noises about me getting an abortion because he didn't want a child in the world so soon that he would have to be responsable for. Needless to say, this did not go over well with me, and I'm glad that it was a false alarm, because I'll tell you this much if it would have been a choice between a child and him, I would have chosen the child and to hell with him. In fact, I did end up divorcing him, and it's rather amuzing, but now the only dates he can find are 18-year-old girls who don't know what he's like...yet.

Now I'm living life to the fullest, and with the sad knowledge that I have maybe five years left to safely have a child. If I ever do, it will be a wonderful thing, if I don't, well, I have my sister's kids to be an aunt to.

For me, in the end, it's family.

rm_Rico0825 replies on 5/19/2006 10:16 am:
That sounds like a tough upbringing.

I would never say that an abortion that was performed to save a women's life is wrong. That is where I differ greatly from most anti-abortion foes. In fact in a life saving case I don't see it as an abortion, but a medical procedure to save a person's life. It would be like not cutting off a leg with gangrene, and allowing the person to die?

I would have been a great Dad to that baby, with or without the Mom. I actually quit drinking and partying of any kind for around 4 years after that. It started the day I found out she was pregnant.

Thank you for your support and understanding. I have a good friend right at this moment facing this tough decision. She has been bleeding since she found out she was pregnant. The Dr, says this could become a dangerous situation. So she really has a tough one to figure out. I told her if the trouble continues, she may have to go through with her greatest fear, the abortion. But like I told her you have two beautiful daughters that need you and depend on you. And the 5 year old would be crushed without her Momma.

LilSquirt_4mfm 68M/69F
3394 posts
5/18/2006 9:33 pm

it is hard for me to imagion what a guy would feel like if a female legally killed his child. and he has no say in it. Every abortion hurts .... but when its that close to you, ....

"their right to their body? ... how about the fetus's rights? .. the fkn left doesnt care .... just want no inconvenience to their own selfish lives .... the no-balls politicos support abortion ... just to get elected is all.

... women who would do that ... the "ultimate child abuse" .... exceed even the child abusers / killers we publicly seek and punish

my take on where we are. .. .sorry got carried away on your blog ....

u r hurting, i do feel for that and dont know what to say to make u better ... my apologies .... just mouthing off on what i know is right ... and what is wrong.

our society is pretty much over i think ... in it's very last stages ... .a society that kills it's own is pretty much extinct, by definition ... 60% favor it ..... there is nothing left to hope for ... just to wait for it to end in a wimper .. .all by itself..the "U" was accurate ... fits the bitches ... for the leftys, cause i know what ur silly little minds will chalk it up to ..i dont do church .... like Rico says, it s the soul that tells one how wrong it is. ..... seems the ones in favor of killing babies must not function from ... or have no connection with their soul ... if they have a meaningfull one. .

i said too much on your blog .... i let my anger at what she did to you ... what "they" do to so many ... get to me ..... if im outa line or off-topic, just delete this ... i'll understand completely. Guess its time for me to say what i really feel on my blog instead of the inane silly sexy stuff i been doin.

meantime ... MANY Huggggs!!!!

rm_Rico0825 replies on 5/19/2006 10:20 am:
Let it go girl, that is what my blog is all about. In fact I wonder why these two women email me everytime I bring up abortion instead of stating their beliefs in public on my blog.

Maybe I will have to start outing them like Sexydisaster30 does when she gets knuckleheads emailing perverted emails to her.

LilSquirt_4mfm 68M/69F
3394 posts
5/20/2006 8:26 am

Thank you ... was concerned i may have overstepped ... only because this was so personal & hurtfull to you.

So, you have cpl of brave souls? who email instead of going public ....... or course, out them ... u r posting in open on blog ... they haveright to post a cumback, in SAME forum, not in a "secret" forum like email ...... that is so cowardly. I have had similar happen. .. .mouthy cowards have every right to post it in the very forum they are responding to.

They are brave enuff to kill a defensless fetus "in secret"... to mouth to you "in secret" ......but cowards in public.


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