Why do men love shadow bars?  

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
12865 posts
2/5/2006 7:51 am

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Why do men love shadow bars?

Sail recently got back from a Las Vegas trip and couldn't stop talking about his visit to one of the Shadow Bars.

He was so turned on that we were gonna set up our living room with a light and a sheet

Just curious as to why you find is so erotic and if you dont, tell me why.

Purry {=}

I swear this time I am really off to go make Super Bowl snacks and clean our house for guest arrival at 4!


warmandsexy52 66M
13164 posts
2/5/2006 10:45 am

Suggestiveness and imagination. In these days of explicitness they are still powerful drivers of male libidos, as they are for women.

All is not lost in the world of sensuality.

warm xx

firestarter665 44M/40F

2/5/2006 10:49 am

I go with my husband to strip clubs. It makes us both feel very erotic doing this together. He loves to see the interaction between me and the dancers.

CamCumWithMe 61M

2/5/2006 11:05 am

Nah... not much into the mysterious stuff. That would be like looking at the Mona Lisa wearing a veil!

mackjohnny69 60M

2/5/2006 11:19 am

Because it seduces our mind, body, and imagination. Now you know what to do for a half time show at your party.

PS: did you win that contest?

expatbrit49 64M

2/5/2006 11:29 am

Ah its like the reason that women here prefer pictures other than dicks, its the imagination

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

rm_Greyeyesky 42M

2/5/2006 11:51 am

There's not actually much else that can buckle a mans knees. It's the look every time. Personaly, I don't enjoy shadow shows at all, and today during the game, I will think about scoring far more than the score. But maybe that's just me.

MillsShipsGayly 53M

2/5/2006 11:55 am

Nine 1/2 Weeks .. what a sexy scene .. HOT

Fox4aKnight1 44F

2/5/2006 1:02 pm

Purry .....I left a comment in the woman to wman encoragement thread...just thought to let you know.

silkysmoothlegs3 106F

2/5/2006 1:15 pm

mmmmmmmmmm how hot

zanzibarus 39M

2/5/2006 2:03 pm

sometimes the imagination is sexier than the reality. I think that's what they play at.

Not what you can see, but the thought of what you can't see, the mystery and intrigue of it all. I find it sexy, but i'm an inquisitive sort of guy and generally let my imagination run wild. Some guys like things in black and white. I prefer my world to have a lot of grey

timberwolf6972 45M

2/5/2006 2:25 pm

I've never even heard of those. I'm not even kidding.

FeistySyn 53F

2/5/2006 5:51 pm

Oh yummmm, I am not even bi, but women in shadows turn me on, of course men do too, even more!!!... never been a big fan of bright lights, seeing every single detail (even back when I though I was *truly* hot, lol, ahhh youth) ... mystery is seriously erotic to me... the unknown, discovering it myself by touch, smell, taste, tease.... what could be better?

p.s. In response to an earlier blog of yours I just read about teenage drivers, there is *nothing* worse I don't think, sorry! Mine was the worst, three accident in I believe a year (fortunately, no one was ever seriously hurt - other than me, wicked painful every time my insurance bill arrived) and she did not get her actual license until she was 17. I thanked the heavens above when she turned 18 and was not "legally" my responsibility anymore! I highly recommend a professional driving instructor / school... for my next one (sigh, yes I have one more yet to go) I will definitely opt for a professional. Best of luck on that!

Apparently the depth of depravity here is bottomless... don't you feel right at home?


2/5/2006 10:31 pm

I find it very erotic and sexy. As the shadows dance you can catch glimpses of every single inch of thier bodies. You find your self imagining what they look like, what they would be like. It entices you to have a full blown fantasy right there. Very hot!

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

keithcancook 61M
18125 posts
2/6/2006 12:42 am

It's because men like mystery.

Jeeze, we must. We like women too...

Rockhard2x6 55M

2/6/2006 6:08 am

I don't know, what's a shadow bar?

rm_MIKEY09X 74M
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2/6/2006 9:13 am


fantasylover_05 63M

2/6/2006 12:25 pm

The pure power of "suggestion"

Something MUCH more seductive about suggestion than explicit!!

As I my blog says...... "an imagination is a terrible thing to waste" LOL LOL

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