The Cat Is Out Of The Bag!!!!  

rm_PurryKitty2 49M/51F
12865 posts
6/4/2006 7:28 am

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6/8/2006 1:07 pm

The Cat Is Out Of The Bag!!!!

I am laughing so hard and also have a sense of relief

Let me back up a second.....For months now Sail and I have been in this lifestyle thinking that our best friends have no idea of what we are doing. You have to understand that these guys know what we eat for breakfast and I certainly didnt think they were stupid, but I wasnt going to come out and say "Hey, BTW, we are swingers", ya know? So we just kept saying we were either tired and didnt want to go out that night or would think of some story about how we met certain couples that we did go out with that evening.

So anyways we are the wedding yesterday and my dearest friend and Sail start dancing and being all silly and they are laughing and then start kissing. It wasnt really sexual or long, but it was funny to see them kissing and I am thinking to myself, "boy they are really having a good time today." Now I say this happily because I always tease her and call her the "Prude" because I am the one always being the big flirt when we go out and she always keeps me in check, which is a good thing. So after the wedding we go to our favorite little tiki bar, the one you hear me always talk about and I will tell you lately that place is becoming like Las Vegas for us. "What happens at the Tiki Bar, stays at the Tiki Bar", ya know what I mean??? I am beginning to think there is something in the drinks because everyone has been so crazy lately which is fine by me because I am normally the wild flirty one so am enjoying everyone being so naughty lately.

Anyways......Sail was really getting wild with her and starts hiking up her skirt. They were giggling and she has this habit of when she drinks chardonnay to tell the truth and we call it her "Truth Serum" So she finally leans over to me and says "I know more about you than you think" I replied and said "Oh that Internet is a bad thing, isnt it?" I said this to see how she would respond and see if she meant she knew I was Purry Kitty and yep, she knows We just laughed and she said "Now I dont have to keep thinking up anymore stories of how I meet people"

So I am relieved because they really are our best friends and it is a good feeling to know that no matter what, your friends accept you for who you are Not that I ever thought they wouldnt talk to us for doing this or anything, but I just didnt want to put them in an awkward position and make them feel funny. So now I can relax and just have fun!!!

Off to the beach,

Purry {=}

BTW, just remembered some guy was having his bachelor party last night and his friend said to me "We are asking all the hot women in the bar to sign his shirt. Will you sign it?" I said sure. Do you want to know what I wrote? Of course you do....I wrote "Swing and have fun. Love Purry Kitty" My friend asked me what I wrote and I told her I couldnt tell her. Now I guess I can, huh ?


Djeeper1987 48M

6/4/2006 8:48 am

I bet that was a relief to know they know about you and that you didn't have to hide. Just let it all out and you will know who your friends really are. BTW, how was the sushi?

Carpe Diem

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
6/4/2006 9:35 am

It's great to be able to just be who you are Purry, and I'm happy for you...

FunFlirty4u 47F

6/4/2006 9:38 am

Sounds like everything turned out great. I had to sign some guys shirt in the bar who was having a bachelor party and I was with a few friends from this site so we all used our handles to sign.

rm_Shortdogg65 52M
672 posts
6/4/2006 9:41 am

As wild as you sound, this doesn't surprise me. Shortdogg

Dildo_replacemen 39M

6/4/2006 10:39 am

That's awesome, I'm glad everything worked out for you.

I've never had to sign a bachelor's t-shirt... I did sign a bachelorette once. lol

Actually I went to a bachelor party last night... I don't go to stripper joints much (I can count them on 1 hand), but for some reason I always walk away with a couple strippers numbers and I don't ask for them either!

spacecadet561 61M

6/4/2006 10:52 am

What was it the Romans used to say: "In vino, veritas." Consider it a sort of "coming out" party, from the cyber-closet. Glad you're having fun.


honoramngthieves 39M

6/4/2006 1:05 pm

He Who Knows Others Is Wise. He Who Knows Himself Is Enlightened.

rm_TheHooligan2 45M
409 posts
6/4/2006 1:23 pm

interesting story purry. it nice to know you have good friends.

biandswapgirl 44F

6/4/2006 1:57 pm

My wife and her best friend were having a few drinks a few weeks back, and my wife told her about our lifestyle. When I found out, I wasn't sure how to act around her, but I didn't have to worry about that. Let's just say that my wife encouraged it enough that we not only told her best friend about our lifestyle, we showed her. Turns out her best friend has wanted me to f$%k her for quite some time, and was actually upset that we hadn't shared our little secrets with her long before. The problem is now that she wants to join us in everything we do, and as nice as she is, she is not really my type. Once with her and my wife was enough for now, so we have to make up more excuses now than ever before!

biandswapgirl 44F

6/4/2006 2:00 pm

I told my girlfriend recently about our lifestyle. Didn't mean to, but we were drinking and it just kinda came out. When my hubby joined us, I told him that she knew, and then I kinda encouraged the two of them to have some fun. I joined in and we had a great time. Only problem is that now, she wants to join us in everything we do. My hubby liked our little threesome, but she is not really his type, so we have to make more excuses now than ever before, when we wanna go out and play without her.

caressmewell 54F

6/4/2006 2:01 pm

    Quoting honoramngthieves:
    He Who Knows Others Is Wise. He Who Knows Himself Is Enlightened.
You should give Lao Tzu credit for his quote....evidently there is NO honoramngthieves.

real36CgirlPA 39F

6/4/2006 7:04 pm

That's really great that you can be completely open with those friends now.

I recently made an accidental confession to one of my friends at work when she asked me what a blog

It's kind of funny because she has since asked me more about the site and plans to check it out herself..heheh


6/4/2006 7:17 pm

How delightful! {=}

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

OboesHonedIambs 63F

6/4/2006 9:29 pm

Yep..I know the feeling... found two old friends here and them emailing "Psst, M... is that you?!?!?" Yup. Even more fun now out in public at gatherings we attend together.

Instant Human -- Just Add Coffee

Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
6/4/2006 10:28 pm


When my lady & I let close people know about our Lifestyle and that she is bi, we feel a sense of relief, like a weight has been pulled off our shoulders.

Living in a small Southern town, there are so many stereotypical negative attitudes about BDSMers and bisexuals that we tend to keep things quiet about what we do and like to do. I am a bit envious that the two of you don't have that pressure on you, but more power to the both of you.

NG61...disappearing back into the darkness...

wildoats19622 55M
3530 posts
6/4/2006 11:29 pm

Interesting coincidence, but not an outing. Today at work I had to tear up a request for parts because I had accidentally signed it Wild.

Guess I've been blogging a lot lately.


Crosswords increase your vocabulary. Cross words increase your blood pressure.

earthShiva 60M

6/5/2006 11:58 am

So let's see if I have this straight. You always called her "The Prude", she found out about your, uh, appetites, Sail was gettin' wild all over her and now she fesses up that she's been to our little piece of heaven?

I smell a follow-up blog coming! Keep us posted!

solus833 35M
1 post
6/6/2006 4:55 am


rm_skyeone2 65M/46F
7186 posts
6/6/2006 6:58 am

It certainly is great to have friends that accept you for who you are!!!


Blessed Be

elysianpleasure 48M

6/7/2006 8:21 pm

It is very cool to be accepted for who you are... to be real and open...

So far I don't have that luxury... but I wish I did.... maybe in time.

newfuntimesguy 49M  
183 posts
6/7/2006 9:24 pm

oh yeah! good thing there was some wine flowing otherwise the blush factor would have been out of hand.

i am half expecting someone at work to say they recognized me all the time.

could be fun if it was the right person! keep u pthe fun!

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