The days keep slipping by...  

rm_PJH16 65M
201 posts
7/27/2006 9:55 am

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8/23/2006 6:59 am

The days keep slipping by...

So I've been on this site for nearly a week. I sent numerous invitations and look at dozens of profiles. ANd the result? ZERO. Quite sad actually...I figured I get acouple of nibbles at least.

Yesterday I logged into a chat room, which was interesting. But the attitude was very standoffish. I was surprised actually. I figured people on this site would have no pre-concieved notions etc. WRONG!! I guess there's no taking the societal mores out of the people.

I was actaully criticized for being married and looking!! I thought that was the point of the site! And talk about double standards....There were a couple of "Couples" in the room who were quite free with comments about "cheating" etc but hey people that's the pot calling the kettle black!!

I would hope that at this stage we could get past that. BESIDES I have my wife's blessing. I only wish she was interested as well. Then we'd be hailed as an "open couple" because she would be willing to participate. But she's not interested. However to her credit she has told me to go ahead and try it out. I think that's very big of her and just shows that she may not be into it herself but can appreciate the needs of her hubby.

But I guess that's not good enough for some people. Talk about your double standard. Maybe I should look for a group that is a little less hung up on what's okay.

Ooh bitterness eh? Not really, just disappointed that typical mores would prevail even in a group that claims to be "free". Sad really.

Oh well, I have some time left, so I'll keep trying. Maybe I just haven't met the right people yet.

FunFlirty4u 47F

7/27/2006 8:11 pm

Want to come to a social tomorrow? You can meet A.F.F. members.

rm_PJH16 replies on 7/28/2006 2:06 am:
Maybe. Buy the way what is A.F.F?

FunFlirty4u 47F

7/28/2006 4:56 am

This site is called AdultFriendFinder or A.F.F. for short.

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