Foreplay is WAY under rated!!!  

rm_Opn4Fun4All 49M
6 posts
8/18/2006 3:57 pm

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Foreplay is WAY under rated!!!

When I started college I was 21 and still in the military. I meet a 45 yr old italian woman who turned my life upside down. She taught me that sex wasn't just about penetration but about the foreplay leading up to the penetration. Good foreplay is like warming up the engine on a car before driving it, its absolutely essential for a long healthy vehicle life. Same thing for a sex life for the following reasons:

1. You don't have to work as hard to bring the woman to climax if the juices are already flowing. If you don't have good stamina it may be because your not giving good foreplay.

2. The women is way more apt to have multiple organizms if shes already warmed up when you penetrate her for the first time.

3. You don't waist your energy/stamina trying to warm up her engine and can save it for a more important moment when shes ready.

5. Women are more willing to spend quality time giving you what you want also (warming up your engine).

6. I've seen a couple of cases where a marrage was saved by the man learning to give good foreplay before penetration because to a women this is like saying "your not just a piece of ass baby".

Here are some suggestions:
If your going to do foreplay don't make it for 5 or 10 minutes unless she asks you to stop because she can't contain herself any longer. At least spend 15 to 20 minutes just on foreplay alone and in some cases this should be done longer depending on the enjoyment she gains from it. Its most important that you learn to ready the signs of when a women is ready for penetration.

Find those errogenous zones you've been hearing so much about and exploit the hell out of them. Its not only for her benefit but yours as well.

Finally, foreplay is sex folks, just the initiation of the sexual act itself. I promise that if this is done BEFORE you get to the sexual act, your life will become so much easier.

Hydragenias 57F

8/18/2006 5:45 pm

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IamWetFire 53F

8/18/2006 6:45 pm

Bless you and THANK you for your wisdom and insight!

There's so much more to the mutual, sensual experience than just sticking in it, getting off, then grabbing a sandwich (while your woman is lying there thinking, "I coulda had a V-8." ).

Welcome to Blogville, by the way. I can already tell you're a wonderful new addition!


rm_devilsgrin69 52M
223 posts
8/18/2006 9:18 pm

I wrote almost the exact same thing in someone elses blog and it is so true.

I'll do anything to make her cum first, then she just grunts, cause she is so incoherent for me to just climb inside and man does she go again and agian and so on... till she begs me to stop.
I'm a little selfish that way.


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