Accusations Can Hurt  

rm_MariGrrl 40F
2485 posts
6/22/2006 9:14 am

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Accusations Can Hurt

I've put off writing this post for some time now. But, with everything that's going on in blogland at the moment it seemed to fit.

When I first joined this site, my husband joined as well. We separated shortly afterward (due to ongoing problems, not related to our memberships here). But, we remained good friends and frequented the same chat room. Around that time I met someone else from here and formed a very strong friendship with him as well (that later developed into much more). He also began going into the same chat room.

Well, three new members all showing up in the same chat room from the same town and knowing each other personally... especially considering the odd romantic triangle we were in... raised suspicions. I'll admit, it was unusual... My estranged hubby and I being such good friends and my new boyfriend all chatting together.

There were also other "clues" that called me into question. I was hesitant to post a pic and when I finally did, was accused of the cleavage shot not actually being mine. I was told I was full of shit and it was mentioned that the three of us might actually all be the same person. That hurt. I stayed away from chat for a little while after that and discovered the blogs. I figured here I could talk about what was on my mind and if people didn't like it or didn't want to read it that was fine... they didn't have to.

I ended up going back to that chat room and have made some amazing friends in there. As for the person who accused me of being a phony... we just don't talk to one another. I have no bad feelings towards her. Now that I've seen for myself the kinds of games some people play, I can understand her suspicion.

This is why I tend to sit on the fence when drama erupts. I have been on the receiving end of false allegations and would not want to take a chance on doing that to someone else. I respect everyone's right to state their opinions and can see where they are coming from most of the time.

In a way, I should thank that person that hurt my feeling so bad last year. Because, if it hadn't been for her, I might not have found my way to the blogs and met all of you.

I have intentionally left the names of the other two members out of this post. I'm not going to just post them for all to see. That's not my decision to make.

I also wanted to thank everyone for making me feel so very welcome here. I've been very lucky to meet such wonderful people as yourselves.

norprin5 56M

6/22/2006 10:39 am

i'm really happy that you're here, sweetie

by the way, [post 397603]

King Nor XVIII

rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/22/2006 11:08 am:
Me too hun

I just stopped by and claimed my prize... thanks Nor! I gotta wonder though, did you set it up that way on purpose so I could stare at your bum?

loadeddice05 45M

6/22/2006 11:36 am

i'M NEVER HAPPY!!!! But I like you and as far as boyfriends go??? Does nOtat know about this other man???? How dare!!!! LOL!!!!!

rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/22/2006 11:40 am:
LMAO... yeah n0ta knows, but its okay we have an understanding. For instance, he told me I could hook up with you while he's gone

loadeddice05 45M

6/22/2006 12:24 pm

    Quoting loadeddice05:
    i'M NEVER HAPPY!!!! But I like you and as far as boyfriends go??? Does nOtat know about this other man???? How dare!!!! LOL!!!!!
(shakes his pimp cane) LOL!!!! And I thought I was a pimp???

Into silent men huh????

rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/22/2006 12:49 pm:
What can I say... its your charming good looks! That black and white pic... gets me HOT! lmfao!

SleekIcilyVarix 42M

6/22/2006 12:53 pm

We're glad you're here too despite the rocky road that brought you here.

rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/22/2006 12:58 pm:
Yeah, but, the best views are usually found by taking the bumpiest path. And I'm very glad to have found a place here as well.

bulging_boy 50M

6/22/2006 3:06 pm

Personally I just don't understand why people feel the need to be fake.

Ok. I do... but still...

When you see the amount of pain and genuine hurt that innocent people get put through, you can appreciate how folk would rather abandon this place entirely.

Now. What's this about boobs?

rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/22/2006 3:43 pm:
LOL... okay you asked for it... these boobs...


I was actually accused of cutting them out of a

(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

6/22/2006 3:10 pm

WOW thats some journey but I so very glad you made it...strange how things work out some times....Ready

Join the Group the "sinner", lol H/B is tripping..!!!


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/22/2006 3:44 pm:
I'm glad I made it too. I'll be sure and check out you gals' group as soon as I can. Gotta run for now.

rm_DaphneR 59F
8023 posts
6/22/2006 3:49 pm

If you need to have your cleavage authenticated Bulge can do that for you. God knows his first words to any female in chat is "top off!"

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/22/2006 8:00 pm:
LOL... a guy that likes cleavage, now there's a shocker

maverick1255 52M
3953 posts
6/22/2006 8:28 pm

Ok, we are glad that you found the blogs - but you been holding out on me, some.


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/23/2006 12:59 am:
I'd never hold out on you intentionally Mav. Anything you wanna know just ask, hun.

sexycooltony 50M
5 posts
6/23/2006 11:35 am



rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/23/2006 5:03 pm:
ummmm... No Thank You!

flagg134 37M
1582 posts
6/24/2006 3:40 pm

Got suckered into blogging myself when someone suggested it to me. At first I was apprehensive about it. I'm glad I did it though theres a lot of support and good people here. Although I know all about controversy and being called a fake to some degree first hand even happens her in blogland. No biggie though I try to stay out of conflicts except when I know both sides of the story.


rm_MariGrrl replies on 6/26/2006 11:05 am:
The good here definitly outweigh the bad.

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