Where to begin.......  

rm_Malichi1970 48M
5 posts
7/22/2006 7:57 pm

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8/11/2006 6:46 pm

Where to begin.......

I guess, I should start telling a bit about me...

I'm 36 years old was married for 10 years and have 3 kids ranging from 9-14(2 girls and a boy). After relizing that a women I had known all of my life had been lying to me about many financial matters and loosing the home I grew up in I found myself living alone. In an attempt to not lay blame on her for our breaking up I said nothing to our mutual friends. The only story they heard was hers and most sided with her because of this. After some time they found out what really happened and understood why I left her. Even though they understood they still were more involved with her then me. I understood this and don't hold them to blame, but found that even my friends who didn't hold her up on a pedistal were still married and me the lone single didn't quite fit into the things they were doing.

So, now I've found myself here and look at this site prety much daily....But, yet didn't know why until recently reading a few others blogs on here. While not into the whole group sex/swinger thing I do like the fact that the group I've joined up with seems to be more friends than anything else and that's what I was looking for all along. Like I said not the sex as much as just a group of people to hang out with and hopefully make some new friends.

I love the outdoors and have noticed some outdoors events planned through the group I joined. So, this looks like it could work.

Oh, one more thing.....I did make it too the July party and sat on the outside mostly trying to to get a feel for who was who and would like to thank those of you who noticed me and took the time to come over and say hello and welcome me in. It was nice to see that some of the friendly faces I see post here all the time were just as friendly in person....Especially Frosty and Oceans. Thanks again for making me feel welcome.

Frostygirl 47F

7/22/2006 11:23 pm

Awwwwwww your so welcome!!!!! Even though my wonderful charm and head rubbing didn't seem to work I am glad that you came....lol......

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
7/23/2006 1:49 pm

Welcome to the blogs! I hope you'll stop by mine and say hello some time!

teaser2009 35F

7/24/2006 1:45 am

Hmmm...I got to the party at midnight and was too shy to walk up to anyone..haha. But i'm glad you had a good time and enjoyed yourself.

Now how about some fishin??

rm_Malichi1970 48M

7/26/2006 6:04 pm

ya know teaser, it's not nice to tease older men with propositions about fishing....lol

CharlieOnTheMTA_ 48F

8/9/2006 3:20 pm

a bit of advice from someone who's moved to 4 cities without knowing a sole....get active. join something. the YMCA, a movie, music or dinner group - try groups in the area. i've met great people this way and have found them to appreciate a new comer...it takes a lot of balls to walk into a room where you know no one and strike up a conversation. they will admire you for it and immediately find you interesting.

don't depend an AdultFriendFinder to fill your needs. i've been here for years, and it can suck you in until you forget about the real world.

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