What is normal?  

rm_Lustbirds2 49M/47F
36 posts
5/29/2006 5:32 am

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1/9/2009 12:49 am

What is normal?

We tend to spend quite a bit of time each day checking messages and responding or writing to others with a plan to find the right people.

I guess we look at it as a bit of a hobby .. we dont actually end up meeting too many people through AdultFriendFinder .. but now and again we will find a gem here.

We do find others more easily at events, parties and clubs .. but still .. now and again AdultFriendFinder will throw someone our way who is a great match.

We were talking on the weekend about what is normal out there? How many hours do you all spend on sites like AdultFriendFinder, Adultmatchmaker and Redhotpie (in Australia) How many nights a month do you all get out and meet others?

We probably are out with others in this scene about times a month - maybe 6.

Are we all wasting loads of time and never actually getting a pay back by getting enough nights out with compatible people?

Is it fun anyway .. the searching?

rm_muffin162 57M
763 posts
5/29/2006 6:32 am

Normal...it is a setting on a washing machine.

rm_MustangD6644 52M
1031 posts
2/3/2007 2:15 am

I sometimes feel that this is all a big waste of time and for a guy it can be very frustrating. The only thing that keeps me coming back is the blogging. It is great for clearing the mind of many thoughts and worries.


PS Great photo

MrMrsredmohawk2 46M/55F

4/2/2008 11:43 am

Been trying to get a group going in our local area for over a year lots of members in the area but there all shy! makes it hard to keep motavated when you get 40 people say they're keen to come and 4 turn up to!

I don't know what normal is but I'm far from it worst of luck, lol.

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