No, I'm not shallow and an online dating experience  

rm_LoyalCumpany 47M
2036 posts
4/13/2006 1:22 am

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4/27/2006 1:13 pm

No, I'm not shallow and an online dating experience

Was just rereading my last post and noticed it might sound kind of shallow for me to say I didn't want anything to do with a female that large. Hell, I'm not a large guy, I'm not going to play the Mutt and Jeff routine where my woman is twice my size. I've never been out with a woman that much larger than me, and doubt I ever will. A little meat on the bones is fine, but come on... I should have the beer belly.

Maybe I've been spoiled with my past partners. The "largest" woman I've ever dated was an exotic dancer in L.A. a few years ago, when I was a little dumber. She was actually one of the few who only danced to get through school (really, she just graduated and is working for an architectural firm). I met her in an online game and may have reached the pinnacle of my online dating experiences right there. lol... if any of you females want an example of my sexual prowess I could direct you to her. Even with her I was just with her and no one else, and we lived miles apart. Now, I know she may not have been faithful to me (the other dancer I had dated wasn't), but I know what I did and can do.

Anyway, been a long night at work, software crashes galore and customers not happy. This'd be a good night for some winding down....

I am JoJo the Circus Boy!

rm_wetfingeraz 55F
3012 posts
4/13/2006 6:19 pm

"There is no reality, only perception." My perception is that not only are you "shallow" you are also a bigot. News flash, Rocket Scientist, you AREN'T all that and a bag of chips. When you can grow a man's body, then perhaps you can start complaining about women of size. And, FYI, us big gals are some of the best lovin' that you'll never have.

rm_LoyalCumpany 47M
3204 posts
4/14/2006 1:48 am

LOL. A bigot? Where in any post, profile, or message did I say I have anything against large women other than I don't want to date one? You have some serious issues to come here and flame me on a post where my biggest issue was with the LIE, not the weight itself. You defend someone lying about something so obvious?

Bigoted would be your personal insult to me about my weight, not me posting about someone being dishonest. If anything, yeah, I'm bigoted against dishonesty.

I have absolutely no problems with anyone being the way they want to be. Never cared about race, creed, color, religion, weight, height, whatever. But I do have standards for someone I'd want to spend time with, sexually and otherwise. Honesty is one, size is another.

I prefer my women to be in some sort of shape, who can actually do active things, who don't complain about the elevation or having to climb something like stairs or a hillside or hell, even 3 freakin steps. I work with some very large women (one weighs nearly 400 lbs). I like them personally, but I could never, ever go out with any of them. I'm just not attracted to big women, and someone coming here and trying to defend their own weight is juvenile, especially since I don't know you and never even mentioned you.

I appreciate the input, even if I think you based your reply on the wrong issue. I'm guessing something brought you to my post other than my picture? =)

I am JoJo the Circus Boy!

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