Slut vs Manwhore  

rm_LikUrPanties 61M
17 posts
4/17/2006 4:24 pm

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5/4/2006 1:55 pm

Slut vs Manwhore


For lack of better wordage.... thus the title...

I always find this interesting...

Reading a blog the other day from an AdultFriendFinder woman who was ranting a bit about men who don't bother to LEARN a person before rushing the bed. She went on about men who seem to feel it's ok to have the lady pay her own way.... with comments to the effect of making her feel like a whore, with the exception of not getting paid for it.

Well, I am in dangerous territory here, I know, but.... If the intent of this site is primarily to find sex with others, then if a woman insists on being taken to dinner first, isn't that similar to paying for sex?

Ok, so it's much more detailed than that, but I am just stirring things a bit and playing devils advocate too.

Obviously it works both ways, although men don't seem to mind so much... *grin* I've seen plenty of profiles on AdultFriendFinder from women who want nothing more than a man to come and fuck them, grab his shoes, and leave. (Thus the Manwhore in the title)

Perhaps I answer my own questions by thinking each person should write their profile fairly clearly... and each person should READ profiles thoroughly.

Personally, I read... I write short intro emails... I write mid length reply emails and hope for as much in return, unless it's the simple 'not interested'.

And I guess I walk both sides of the fence. Certainly there are times when I would just love to meet a woman and be frolicking within minutes. But I do believe I would rather have some nice clothed time first to even the keel. That way nobody needs to be thought of as whorish... hehe


angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
4/17/2006 4:42 pm

This was a good post. Point well taken.


49AK 56M
1823 posts
4/17/2006 4:52 pm

I like your point of view. Clearly there are people with a whole range of expectations here on AdultFriendFinder. Most are somewhere in the middle... I think (at least as far as women go) there aren't too many instant gratification hook-up types on here, and not too many life partner seekers (The E-League, as I like to call them). Most people tend to fall in the middle somewhere... and that middle is clearly not how this site is positioned. The site is marketed more on facilitating sex than facilitating relationships.

That being said, there are plenty of opportunities for everyone on here, all across the spectrum. But people shouldn't be surprised or offended when someone doesn't meet our expectations about what we're looking for... sex, romance, life partner, etc.

I'm good for a dinner, and a nice weekend at a B&B.


VaCpl_69 37M/34F
34 posts
4/17/2006 5:04 pm

youre exactly right. until women take the role men have for Millenia, we own this world.

when women, will ask men out on dates, pay, and get a hotel room, they can TRULY be on equal ground. otherwise, we wont be taken seriously.

-Claire


rm_LikUrPanties 61M

4/17/2006 5:08 pm

One thing I forgot to mention....
On that original blog I was reading the woman went on about a particular man, who let her down once by not showing for a mutual greeting.... but eventually they made a visit together... where she was thoroughly pleased wiith the quick sex before he dashed off.
I'm sorry... but that really made me LMAO!!


crazygurl2xx 58F

4/17/2006 6:06 pm

i like it both ways. some men are just fucks and some are more. it can also totally depend on my mood... and circumstances.


saddletrampsk 55F

4/17/2006 6:30 pm

Good post..am I one of the few women that actually enjoys a manwhore?


sillyquestion576 56F

4/18/2006 8:48 pm

I agree it does depend on the mood. Usually I do talk to guys for awhile and see what they are wanting also. But I have had someone message me and just expect that since they sent me a message, that automaticly meant I was going to meet them.


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