My Fantasies  

rm_Kris422 41F
69 posts
8/10/2005 9:40 pm

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My Fantasies

I do still have some things that I've always wanted to do, but I also have some things that I'd like to experience again.

I've always wanted to fuck hubby on his desk in his office. I don't think this will ever happen, but....

I'd like to have a three-some with another woman involved. Hubby actually expressed having this fantasy a few years ago when he was feeling more sexual, but I don't think that he would ever go through with it...

I'd like to have sex with someone that wants me so badly that he loses control. I'd love to have my shirt ripped open, buttons popping. My clothes jerked aside or down to expose more skin. I'd like to be ravished, gorged on frantically. I'd like to get caught up in the rush, the need, and eventually the climax.

But then again, I'd also just like to experience sex where both people want it equally as much again. Is that such a fantasy?

We probably all have fantasies. Not all of us are willing to share them, some are probably afraid to admit them, but these are some of mine.

girl_lover64 53M
2 posts
8/10/2005 11:59 pm

Kris- This is not directly related to your recent posting, but I've read your other blogs. You and I have the same problem. I am married and my wife has zero to no interest in sex. On a good month, we might have a quick one time encounter. She rarely initiates it, and when we do have sex she wants to be done with it quickly. On other occassions, if I suggest that we have sex, more than likely she's too tried or even gets pissed off at the suggestion. I am really tried of begging her to have sex with me. I really don't understand how anyone couldn't enjoy or want to have sex. I am atractive guy (or so I have been told, believe me I am not that vain), I really don't understand it. I feel like there must be something wrong with me, and that I must not be attractive.

rm_marridman31 44M

8/11/2005 5:07 am

Well this is my first response attempt. Each persons fantasy is directly related to what kind of person he/she is in bedroom. The man and woman have to be comfortable within themselves to really experience and enjoy that fantasy. Some people might call it being cocky (no pun), I call it being confident.

Being married myself, I cant honestly answer this threesome idea. I mean me, you and a third female, that room can be reserved at your request. LOL But if my wife would agree to one, I would be somewhat skeeptical. I will expain that another time.
Now, the taking control of part, that is just u needing a man to be a man at the right moment. You would probably have just as much aggression once things got going. Unlocking that sex nympho out maybe. Well I think I have rambled long enough. If I dont get bashed too bad, I will attempt to become a regular responder.
One last thing Kris, in time people should figure out what the other one wants. This may be in a married relationship or a playmate on the side. LOL Have a good day!!

rm_Kris422 41F
5 posts
8/11/2005 6:33 am

You are only partially right on the taking control part. I have been the one in control, the aggressor in my relationship for a long time. Maybe I just crave someone else taking that role for once. I am a very responsive and would most definitely participate equally. I just would like for once to have to surrender some of that control. I guess, in your words, "I would like a man to be a man at the right moment" for once.


8/11/2005 7:53 am

Hey Chris, I think I understand your desire for an aggressive lover> In your marriage (and mine) you are the aggressor (you iniate the encounter) or at least try to get things going. Then your partner is not receptive to your desires. You ( are always the iniator! It would be nice if your partner would take the lead and realy get worked up over the experiance. Pasion follows pasion!!
But I have to say if you want that experiance, I would be glad to be that guy!!lol

Play hard, play safe and play often!!!{=}

rm_cookin4u 57M
1 post
8/12/2005 9:38 am

Hi Kris, sounds so familiar. Girls rarely get all the sexual attention they need to keep that "glow" that shines on their face, eyes and demeanor. Try having sex with more than one man at the same time. My girlfriends loved all the attention plus me watching them getting pleasure from someone else. They even asked if I was enjoying the scene as much as they were... girls love attention and you are obviously not getting near enough... happens to every relationship after time...Yanking off your blouse, bra & panties with another man surely would get you wet and flush. Nothing more stimulating to a man than seeing his lady full of lust and desire in front of another horny man as she realizes how hard both cocks are at her display of sex. You should let your inhibitions go and enjoy the pleasures you really want to feel as a woman. Maybe you are shy confessing this to your husband, fearing his rejection of the idea but, he should get turned on at the thought. I bet his cock would get hard just at your mentioning fucking him while sucking another rigid cock as he spanked your sexy little ass. I remember a g/f telling me about 2 of my friends stripping her naked and fucking her brains out while I was away and I got so hard we fucked like teenagers as she confessed what she asked them to do to her. She loved it and told her girlfriends how much she enjoyed begging my friends to fuck her like a whore. wish I could have watched! If he is jealous, possessive or selfish it won't work. Those types don't get it. Then you'll have to show up somewhere wearing a short dress or skirt sans panties and bra and openly reveal your nakedness and horny nature. I've seen g/f's work their magic and men fall all over themselves buying drinks, telling jokes and making conversation just to get a closer look. When they find out you can handle two of them you'll get anything you want and more. Have fun and write if you've got questions. I've had a lot of fun many, many times and the girl always leaves smiling.

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