Real Men Don't Brag...  

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
2665 posts
5/8/2006 2:13 pm

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5/10/2006 7:32 pm

Real Men Don't Brag...

Not really sure what stirred this memory up from my distant past..but here it is.

It took me many years..after my husband and I split up to feel that I was allowed to see other men. (It's that Catholic upbringing..stifling my sexuality.) Anyway..when I finally began to wise up to the fact that it was OK..I had heard about this guy..from other women. (In afterthought..I figure..this guy probably was responsible for spreading many of those rumors himself.) I had seen him around a few times.

We finally hooked up at a dance one night. We went out once or twice. He talked a great game. Those other women had told me how handsome he was..check..he was. They told me how sexy he was..check..he was. Nice body..yup. Dressed nice..yup. Good conversation..nope..dud. Turns out his favorite topic of conversation was himself.

It had been awhile since I had had I took him to bed. Besides..I was beginning to spread my wings..and realize what a sexual being I was..that I could and should enjoy sex without guilt.

Well..I guess nobody had told him about foreplay..since there sure wasn't much. At one point he did bite my neck..which sent a rush through felt good..and I gasped. Well apparently..that was the extent of his imagination..because he just kept doing the point of making my neck sore. He showed no tenderness and concern for my pleasure.

Frankly..I was glad when it was over. In fact..I faked an orgasm..just to have it over and done get him out of my bed and gone. What a disappointment. His dick was laughable. If he had known how to use would have made up for the size. If he had bothered to spend the time arousing would have made a world of difference. I'm always willing to reciprocate..once I'm so inspired. But there was no inspiration there.

The next day..when I was walking through the neighborhood..I saw him and a group of 6 or 7 men out on the boulevard and side walk working on a couple of cars. As I approached them..I saw him smirking..and a couple of the guys poke each other in the ribs.

I knew..just by looking at him and they were watching my approach and chuckling..smirking..that he had been talking about me. Most likely bragging about his conquest of yet another woman in the neighborhood. No doubt he had poured it on..regarding his "great" performance in bed.

As I passed through the group..I looked him right in the eyes..didn't even smile..I just nodded and said "how ya doing?". I didn't pause to talk..just kept right on walking.

I heard the burst of laugher of the men behind me..and knew..beyond a doubt..that it wasn't me they were laughing was him. This encounter..was obviously not what he had expected. He was probaby used to foolish women who would be gushing and admiring..because of his pretty looks. Well..I wasn't going to one of those women. He had "kissed and told".

To my mind..real men don't tell. They don't have to spread the stories of their exploits to impress their friends. They don't have to talk themselves they can feel like men. They know they are. Real men don't brag.


MyRealLoverOne 47M

5/8/2006 7:39 pm

Real Lovers don't either!!!

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
5/8/2006 10:18 pm


You're so right..they don't. And besides that..a real man is a real lover.


Nightguy_1961 56M
4866 posts
5/8/2006 11:35 pm

I'm sorry that you had to deal with a real jerk...that's the problem, they give the rest of us a bad reputation.

Of course, I can't help but wonder.....are there women who are guilty of the same thing?

NG61....fading back into the shadows.....

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
5/9/2006 6:37 am

Good morning NG...
Thankful that all men aren't like that..I'm more selective these days.
Women..?..there probably are some like that..but not in my circle of friends.

Greetings Dusty...
I'm wondering what guys think of the men who they know they're lying or do they go along?


HTrismegistus 58M
9 posts
5/10/2006 4:13 pm

It is hard enough to tell the person you were with (who was there!) how it was, never mind the rest of humanity.
I tell, sometimes, when I write a poem.

rm_Kissmystuff 62F
1435 posts
5/10/2006 7:32 pm

Hi bbwDDs...
Thanks..chalk one up for womanhood..jerk..nothing.

A poem really isn't quite the running around and bragging to your friends.


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